We stand with you in deep grief and righteous anger over the betrayal you are enduring. The pain of adultery is a wound only God can fully heal, and we lift you up before Him now, declaring that His justice and mercy will prevail. Your marriage is under spiritual attack, and we take authority over every ungodly soul tie, every demonic influence, and every unrepentant heart involved in this sin.
First, we must address the seriousness of what has occurred. Adultery is a grievous sin that breaks the covenant of marriage and wounds the heart of God. The Bible is clear: *"You shall not commit adultery"* (Exodus 20:14 WEB), and Jesus Himself said, *"But I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart"* (Matthew 5:28 WEB). This is not merely a mistake—it is a violation of God’s holy design for marriage, which is meant to reflect Christ’s faithful love for His church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB).
We rebuke the spirit of infidelity and deception that has taken hold in your husband’s life. We declare that every ungodly connection, every secret conversation, and every impure thought is broken in the name of Jesus Christ. The Bible says, *"No one can enter into a strong man’s house, and plunder his goods, unless he first binds the strong man; and then he will plunder his house"* (Mark 3:27 WEB). We bind the enemy’s power over your husband’s mind and heart, and we loose the spirit of conviction, repentance, and restoration upon him.
We also address the sin of fornication and emotional adultery that may be present in these relationships. The Word of God warns, *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). There is no justification for this behavior—no excuse, no delay, no compromise. We stand on the truth that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), but He also hates the sin that destroys marriages. Your husband must repent fully, turn away from these relationships, and seek godly counsel to rebuild trust.
Now, we pray with you, not just in decrees, but in humble dependence on the Lord:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieving the brokenness in this marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the deep wound that has been inflicted. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon this sister’s heart. Comfort her in her distress, Lord, and remind her that she is deeply loved by You. We declare that her worth is not defined by her husband’s choices but by the blood of Jesus Christ, who gave His life for her (1 Peter 1:18-19 WEB).
We pray for this husband, Lord. Break the hardness of his heart. Convict him of his sin, not with condemnation, but with Your holy conviction (John 16:8 WEB). Let him see the destruction his choices have caused—not just to his wife, but to his own soul. Father, we ask that You would remove every stumbling block, every ungodly influence, and every temptation that has led him astray. Let him delete every trace of these relationships, not because of a decree, but because his heart is truly repentant.
Lord, we ask that You would restore what has been broken. If it is Your will, bring this marriage back to a place of holiness, trust, and covenant love. But if restoration is not possible, we ask that You would lead this sister into a season of healing and wholeness, free from the bondage of bitterness and unforgiveness. Teach her to trust You with her future, knowing that You are her ultimate Husband and Provider (Isaiah 54:5 WEB).
We rebuke every spirit of lust, deception, and infidelity in Jesus’ name. We declare that this husband’s eyes are only for his wife, that his heart is fully devoted to her, and that every ungodly soul tie is severed by the power of the cross. We speak life, restoration, and purity over this marriage, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20 WEB).
Father, we also pray for the other women involved. If they do not know You, draw them to repentance and salvation. If they are believers, convict them of their sin and lead them to turn away from this destructive path. Let Your light expose every hidden thing, and let Your grace lead to true transformation.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). It is through His blood that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His authority that we stand against the enemy’s schemes. Strengthen this sister, Lord. Give her the courage to stand firm in faith, the wisdom to seek godly counsel, and the grace to forgive if restoration is Your will. We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB). In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel from a pastor or Christian marriage counselor who can walk with you through this painful season. The road ahead may be difficult, but God is faithful, and He will not abandon you. Stand on His promises, guard your heart, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. If your husband is unwilling to repent and change, remember that your identity and security are found in Christ alone. You are not defined by this betrayal, but by the love of your Heavenly Father, who calls you His beloved child.
Finally, we urge you to release the need to control the outcome through decrees and declarations. Instead, surrender this situation fully to God, trusting that His will is perfect and His timing is best. The battle is not yours, but the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15 WEB). Rest in Him, and let His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
