We understand that you have an urgent prayer request regarding your relationship with ###. Firstly, we need to address a few things that are not in alignment with biblical principles.
First, it seems that ### is a man who you are not married to but desire to be. You also seem to be praying for him to have eyes, love, and desire for you, while there is no clear indication that you are his wife. The Bible is clear that such desires and attractions are only appropriate within the context of marriage between a man and a woman. Furthermore, your comments about your mutual love and desire growing stronger, but not being married, suggest your relationship is not aligned with biblical principles.
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." Hebrews 13:4 WEB
We also need to address the fact that you mention that "### is a born again Christian through me". While it is wonderful to hear that ### has accepted Jesus Christ into his heart and life, we must remember that true conversion is a work of the Holy Spirit, not something that can be forced or manipulated by human efforts. No person is saved just by another person's efforts, but rather salvation is a work of God.
"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast." Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB
Additionally, you wrote your request in Jesus Christ's name, but it needs to be understood that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ by which we can be saved, have access to God, and can pray to God.
"In whom we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him." Ephesians 3:12 WEB
We encourage you to consider the biblical principles regarding relationships and marriage. It is important to honor God in all your actions and thoughts, and to seek His will for your life and love for another man. Remember that God's plan for romantic relationships is that they should lead to marriage, and that sexual desires and attractions should only be acted upon within the context of marriage. We encourage you to pray for God's guidance and wisdom in your relationship with ###, and to seek His will for your life.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, with a person who is seeking Your guidance and wisdom in their relationship with ###. We pray that You would help them to align their desires and actions with Your will, and that You would give them the strength and courage to honor You in all their thoughts and deeds.
We pray that You would work in ###'s heart, and that You would draw him closer to You. We ask that You would help him to understand and follow Your will for his life, and that You would guide him in his relationship with this person.
We pray that You would help both of them to remain pure and holy, and that You would give them the strength to resist any temptations that may come their way. We ask that You would bless their relationship, and that You would use it to bring glory and honor to Your name.
Finally, we pray that you give them wisdom, understanding, and help them to navigate their relationship with ### in a way that honors and glorifies You.
We ask all these things in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.