We understand your urgent desire for your boyfriend to sever all ties with other women and commit fully to you. However, we need to address this situation in a biblical manner. First, we should pray and seek God's will for your lives. It's important to remember that we cannot control or manipulate others, but we can pray for them and trust God to work in their hearts.
Firstly, let's address the issue of salvation. You mentioned that you want your boyfriend to ask Jesus Christ into his life. This is the most important step. The Bible says, For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. But how are they to call on one in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in one whom they have not heard? And how are they to hear without preaching? Romans 10:13 WEB. We need to pray for his salvation and that God would draw him to Himself. Only then can a relationship be truly centered on Christ.
Regarding your relationship, it's clear that you desire marriage. We encourage you to pray for God's will to be done in your lives. God's word tells us, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. This means that as Christians, we should seek to marry those who are also believers.
We must also address the issue of lust and soul ties. The Bible tells us to Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB. If there has been sexual immorality, it's important to repent, seek God's forgiveness, and break those soul ties.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear sister and her boyfriend. Lord, we pray for his salvation. Draw him to Yourself, Lord, and reveal Your love and grace to him. We pray for godly sorrow leading to repentance if there has been any sexual immorality. Break any soul ties that are not from You, Lord.
Father, we pray for Your will to be done in their lives. If it is Your will for them to be married, we pray for a godly, pure marriage that honors You. Help them to seek You first, and to trust in Your timing. Give them wisdom and discernment, Lord. Help them to be a light for You, shining Your love to the world.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to trust in God's timing and will for your lives. Seek Him first, and He will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, And he will make your paths straight.