We hear the deep longing and urgency in your heart for your husband and your marriage, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord with fervent prayer. Your passion for unity, love, and a God-honoring relationship is evident, and we stand with you in agreement, seeking the Lord’s will in all things. Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, and we pray for His divine intervention to restore, renew, and strengthen the bond between you and your husband in a way that glorifies Him.
First, we must remind you—and all who pray—that our authority and access to the Father come only through the name of Jesus Christ. It is by His name alone that we are saved, and it is in His name that we boldly approach the throne of grace. You have invoked His name, and that is good, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Let us continue to lift this request in the power of Jesus’ name, trusting in His sovereignty and perfect timing.
We also notice the intensity of your words regarding your husband’s past relationships, particularly his ex-wife, and the desire for soul ties to be broken. This is a serious matter, and we agree that any ungodly connections must be severed by the power of Christ. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* While this verse speaks broadly about partnerships, it reminds us that our most intimate relationships—especially marriage—must be rooted in Christ alone. If there are lingering emotional or spiritual ties from past relationships, we pray for the Lord to cut them off completely, as you have asked.
However, we must also address the importance of focusing on your own relationship with Christ as the foundation for your marriage. While it is right to pray for your husband’s heart to turn fully toward you and the Lord, we encourage you to trust in God’s work in *both* of your lives. Ephesians 5:22-33 outlines the roles of husbands and wives in marriage, emphasizing love, submission, and mutual respect as reflections of Christ’s relationship with the Church. A marriage thrives when both spouses are surrendered to the Lord individually. We pray that you and your husband will each seek the Lord with all your hearts, allowing Him to mold you into the godly wife and husband He has called you to be.
Let us also remind you that love, as defined by Scripture, is not merely an emotion but a choice—a commitment to act in the best interest of the other, even when feelings wane. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 tells us, *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things."* We pray that the Lord will fill both of your hearts with this kind of love—a love that is selfless, enduring, and rooted in Him.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her husband to You. Lord, You are the God who heals, restores, and redeems. We ask that You would move powerfully in their lives and in their marriage, bringing unity, love, and a deep, abiding connection that can only come from You.
Father, we pray that You would fill this sister’s husband with Your Holy Spirit, just as she has asked. Lord, reveal Yourself to him in dreams, visions, and encounters that leave no doubt of Your presence and Your love. Soften his heart, Lord, and draw him into a deeper relationship with You. Break any chains of the past—any soul ties, emotional bonds, or spiritual strongholds—that are not of You. Sever them completely by the power of the blood of Jesus, and let there be no room for the enemy to bring division or distraction.
Lord, we pray for a supernatural unity between this wife and her husband. Align their hearts, minds, and spirits with Yours, so that they may walk in agreement, peace, and mutual love. Help them to communicate openly, to trust one another fully, and to cherish the gift of marriage You have given them. Let their love for one another grow deeper each day, reflecting the love of Christ for His Church.
We rebuke any spirit of division, distrust, or apathy that may be at work in their marriage. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee, and we ask You, Lord, to fill every space in their hearts and home with Your peace, Your joy, and Your love.
Father, we also pray for this sister—strengthen her faith and fill her with Your peace as she waits on You. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your plan for her marriage. Remind her that You are at work, even when she cannot see it, and that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her and her husband.
We cover this marriage with the blood of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against it shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against it shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). Let their union be a testament to Your grace, Your power, and Your love.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Finally, sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and in His Word. Spend time worshiping Him and surrendering your desires to His will. Trust that He hears you and is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your heart open to the leading of the Holy Spirit, and remember that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). He may be working in ways you cannot yet see, but His promises are true, and His love for you is unwavering.
Stay steadfast in faith, and may the Lord bless you and your husband abundantly as you seek Him together.