We understand the deep pain and urgency in your heart, and we come before the Lord with you in this time of distress. However, we must address this situation with biblical truth and wisdom, for God’s Word is the foundation upon which we stand.
First, let us remind you that marriage is a covenant before God, and He takes it seriously. The Lord says in Malachi 2:16, *"For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!"* Marriage is meant to reflect Christ’s relationship with His Church—a bond of love, faithfulness, and commitment (Ephesians 5:22-33). While we understand the pain of betrayal or infidelity, we must approach this situation with prayer for restoration, repentance, and healing—not merely the severing of ties unless biblical grounds for divorce are present (Matthew 19:9).
If your husband has been unfaithful or involved in sin, the call is first to prayer, repentance, and reconciliation if possible. Jesus teaches us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Matthew 6:14-15), and the apostle Paul instructs wives to love and respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33), while husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. If there has been sin, we pray for conviction, repentance, and a turning back to God and to the marriage covenant.
However, if there is unrepentant, ongoing adultery or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15), then separation may be necessary—but even then, we must seek God’s will and wisdom, not our own desires for vengeance or control. Your words carry a tone of decreeing and declaring as if by your own authority, but we must remember that it is God who changes hearts, not our declarations. Proverbs 19:21 reminds us, *"Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but Yahweh’s counsel will prevail."*
We also notice that your prayer focuses heavily on removing another person from your husband’s life. If there is indeed another woman involved, we must pray for her as well—for repentance, conviction, and salvation if she does not know Christ. But we must also examine our own hearts, for bitterness, anger, or an unforgiving spirit can hinder our prayers (Hebrews 12:15, Mark 11:25).
Let us pray together for your marriage, for your husband’s heart, and for your own heart to be aligned with God’s will.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the brokenness, and the desperation in her heart. We ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. If there has been sin, we pray for conviction and repentance. Softening hearts, Lord—both her husband’s and her own. Remove any bitterness, anger, or unforgiveness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Father, if this marriage can be restored, we pray for reconciliation, healing, and a renewed commitment to You and to one another. If there is another person involved, we pray for their conviction and repentance as well. But above all, Lord, we ask for Your will to be done. Give this sister wisdom, strength, and discernment. Help her to trust You fully, knowing that You are the God who restores, redeems, and makes all things new.
We rebuke any spirit of division, adultery, or deception in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray for a hedge of protection around this marriage, that no weapon formed against it shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, let Your love, truth, and righteousness prevail. We ask for Your peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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We encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers who can walk with you through this trial. If your husband is unwilling to repent or restore the marriage, we will continue to pray for God’s guidance and provision in your life. But let us always remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12), and our greatest weapon is prayer, surrender, and trust in the Lord.
If you have not already, we urge you to spend time in God’s Word, seeking His comfort and direction. Psalm 34:18 reminds us that *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
