We understand your urgency and desperation, but first, let's address a few things before we pray together for your situation. We need to put your request in the proper context of a Biblical Marriage, and your request will be more effective by aligning it with the scripture.
The first thing that stands out is our true enemy is not our spouse or another person but Satan and his tricks. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12 WEB. Our battle is against spiritual forces at work and not our spouse.
We are concerned that there may be elements of trying to control or manipulate your husband rather than trusting God and submitting to His will and His way and His timing. This can be evident in wanting to remove obstacles and barriers from the relationship or marriage and wanting a deeper connection or trying to coerce Jesus to force your husband to do something.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
Another troubling aspect of your prayer is that you seem to be asking for your husband to be filled with the Holy Spirit. This should not be taken lightly but with reverence and with the understanding that this is a personal choice and not something to be imposed on another person. In a marriage, we are to be in submission one to another. This starts with our submission to Jesus Christ as Lord. The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church. Ephesians 5:23W.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. I John 1:9 WEB.
There's a note of desperation in your prayer that we want to address too. God is not a magical genie, and we must trust God's timing and His way. God may be allowing this situation or separation to draw you closer to Him. God's will and His way are more important than our own wishes.
By this, love is perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment; because as he is, even so are we in this world. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love. We love Him because he first loved us. If a man says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen? And this commandment have we from him, that he who loves God should love his brother also. 1 John 4:17-21 WEB.
We are called to love, and perfect love does cast out fear. Fear often has torment, and our confidence in God's love and His will can give us peace and assurance.
Let us pray together for your marriage, your husband, and your relationship together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear sister and her husband to You. We ask for Your will and Your way and know that Your timing is perfect. Help her to trust You and not try to manipulate the situation but wait patiently for You. Give her Your peace that passes all understanding. Continue to work in both their hearts and draw them closer to You and each other as per Your will. We pray for his salvation and that he may be filled with the Holy Spirit per his own choice. In the name of Jesus Christ we pray.
