We understand your urgent desire for prayer and support in your marriage. However, we need to address a few things to align your request with biblical principles.
Firstly, we are instructed in the Bible to put God first in all things. You did mention Jesus first, but let's remember that our primary focus should be to glorify and honor God in all our ways. As it is written in Matthew 6:33 WEB: "But seek first God's kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
Secondly, it's important to understand that God's favor is not about being above others but about being blessed to be a blessing. God's desire is for us to walk in His ways and to love and serve others, not to be elevated above them. As Philippians 2:3-4 WEB says: "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."
Regarding your husband, it's wonderful that you desire a strong and passionate marriage. However, it's crucial to remember that love is not merely an emotion or a feeling of attraction, but a commitment and a choice. In Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB, God's word to wives is to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, and God's word to husbands is to love their wives just as Christ also loved the church. This kind of love is selfless, patient, and kind.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. Lord, we ask for Your blessings and favor to be upon their marriage, that they may walk in Your ways and honor You in all they do. Help them to love each other deeply, to be committed to each other, and to grow together in Your love. Help them to put You first in their marriage and in every area of their lives. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.