We join with you in prayer for your daughter and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no attachment, no tie, and no spiritual oppression that is stronger than our Lord.
We want to gently rebuke the lie that this bond is too strong to break. That is not the truth of Scripture. The enemy wants your daughter to feel hopeless and bound, but the Word tells us greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4. We have been given authority in Christ, Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy. Nothing will in any way hurt you, Luke 10:19. What she is experiencing is real spiritual oppression, and the Bible does call demonic influence real, but the idea of a spirit spouse as a legitimate marriage is a deception. God ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, Mark 10:6-9, and any counterfeit spiritual union is not from God but is a demonic attachment meant to defile and torment. It has no legal right over a child of God who is in Christ.
If this ungodly soul tie came through sexual sin outside of marriage, through fornication or adultery, through involvement in the occult, pornography, or other doors opened to the enemy, it must be addressed openly before God. We lovingly say that sex outside of biblical marriage is sin and it does create ungodly ties, and the Lord calls us to flee sexual immorality, 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also are told to submit ourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you, James 4:7. The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, 2 Corinthians 10:4. This means deliverance comes not by our own strength but by submission to Jesus, confession, renunciation, and resisting the enemy in His name.
We encourage you and your daughter together to take these steps before the Lord. Let her herself confess with her own mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord and that she belongs fully to Him. Let her confess and repent of any sin that may have opened this door, for If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, 1 John 1:9. Let her renounce out loud any agreement, knowingly or unknowingly, with this spirit and break it in Jesus name. Remove from your home any objects, images, music, books, or media that honor impurity or the occult. Fill that cleansed place with the Word, with worship, and with prayer, and put on the whole armor of God, Ephesians 6:11. We also urge you to bring trusted, biblically grounded pastors or elders from your local church to pray with you both in person, for there is power when believers agree together, and fasting with prayer is also powerful in these battles.
We now pray together for her complete freedom.
Father in heaven, we come before Your throne in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, and we thank You that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, those on earth, and those under the earth, Philippians 2:10. Lord, we lift this precious daughter to You. You formed her, You love her, and You desire her wholeness. We ask You to forgive any sin that has given the enemy a foothold, to wash her clean by the blood of Jesus shed on the cross. We renounce and break in the name of Jesus Christ every ungodly soul tie, every attachment, and every lying spirit that has called itself a spouse over her life. We command every unclean spirit to leave her now and to go where Jesus sends it, never to return. We declare that she is not bound, for So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed, John 8:36. Fill her now, Holy Spirit, with Your presence, Your peace, and Your power. Let her mind be renewed by Your Word and let her know that she can do all things through Christ, who strengthens her, Philippians 4:13. Give her a hatred for sin and a hunger for righteousness, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Give her mother wisdom, strength, and peace as she contends for her daughter, and let fear be replaced with faith, for You have said Fear not, for I am with you, Isaiah 41:10. We claim her complete deliverance and restoration for Your glory, and we trust You to perfect that which concerns her. In Jesus mighty name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to continue to speak Scripture aloud over her daily, to pray without ceasing, 1 Thessalonians 5:17, and to help her walk in purity and obedience as she pursues a godly life. If she is not yet walking daily with Jesus as her Lord and Savior, let this be the moment she fully surrenders to Him, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. We are standing with you until you see her testimony of freedom.