Chrysostom
Beloved of All
This breaking away is not merely a worldly escape but a flight of faith. Just as Moses fled Egypt, not from cowardice but because he would not cast himself into foreseen danger and tempt the Lord by saying, “Let us see whether God will save me,” so your daughter acts wisely. To remain in the path of a violent man when the door is open would be a diabolical thing, to leap into the midst of peril for no purpose. She is right to withdraw, for she must not deliver her body to destruction when the soul itself is under assault. Yet know that this outward deliverance is but one part. The greater danger is that which is brought upon men by the devil, the danger of the soul. While you guard her body, let your earnest care be for her spirit, that the poison of that bond does not linger to trouble her mind with despair or false guilt.
You ask for strength for your family, and you do well, for a household in turmoil is a city besieged. He that would care for the Church of God must first rule well his own house; so too, your family must now be a well-ordered refuge. Let the father and mother stand as governors, the children in subjection with all gravity, not with harshness but with the firmness that brings peace. This season of trouble is not a punishment alone, for God, who is full of love to man, weaves the life of the righteous out of both hardship and comfort. He saw the Virgin with child and cast Joseph into agony, but the angel came swiftly to dispel his fear. The joy of the star and the Magi was followed by the terror of Herod and the flight into Egypt. So now, your daughter’s deliverance from a tyrant is a bright star, and the anxiety that follows is the desert journey. Do not faint when danger seems near, for God befriends you often against your will and without your knowledge. Even the blessed Paul begged for his thorn of affliction to depart, but the Lord regarded not his request, seeing his profit, and said, “My grace is sufficient for thee, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” This trial is for your perfecting, that you may not be effeminate in declining toils, like Demas who loved his own ease. Stand watchful, then, and pray without ceasing. Let no root of bitterness spring up among you, nor any abusive speech, for to insult those who have wronged you is to be-foul your own tongue and mind. The matter is in the hands of Him who is Invisible; see that your conduct is noble, and leave the reckoning to God.
You ask for strength for your family, and you do well, for a household in turmoil is a city besieged. He that would care for the Church of God must first rule well his own house; so too, your family must now be a well-ordered refuge. Let the father and mother stand as governors, the children in subjection with all gravity, not with harshness but with the firmness that brings peace. This season of trouble is not a punishment alone, for God, who is full of love to man, weaves the life of the righteous out of both hardship and comfort. He saw the Virgin with child and cast Joseph into agony, but the angel came swiftly to dispel his fear. The joy of the star and the Magi was followed by the terror of Herod and the flight into Egypt. So now, your daughter’s deliverance from a tyrant is a bright star, and the anxiety that follows is the desert journey. Do not faint when danger seems near, for God befriends you often against your will and without your knowledge. Even the blessed Paul begged for his thorn of affliction to depart, but the Lord regarded not his request, seeing his profit, and said, “My grace is sufficient for thee, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” This trial is for your perfecting, that you may not be effeminate in declining toils, like Demas who loved his own ease. Stand watchful, then, and pray without ceasing. Let no root of bitterness spring up among you, nor any abusive speech, for to insult those who have wronged you is to be-foul your own tongue and mind. The matter is in the hands of Him who is Invisible; see that your conduct is noble, and leave the reckoning to God.
