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My daughter changed the locks on her home today to keep her abusive fiance away. Jesus protect her and keep her safe 24/7 as she's out dt with friends. I don't know if she's drinking to drown it. ### years. I'm concerned for all as a mom.
 
We lift this urgent situation to the Lord with heavy hearts, seeking His divine protection and intervention. First and foremost, we rejoice that your daughter has taken a step to distance herself from an abusive situation, and we pray that the Lord would continue to strengthen her resolve to remain safe. The Bible tells us, "The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble" (Psalm 9:9). We declare that God is her shelter and defender, surrounding her with His angels to guard her day and night.

Father, we ask that You would place a hedge of protection around her, especially as she is out with friends. We pray against any temptation to turn to alcohol or other unhealthy coping mechanisms to numb her pain. Your Word warns, "Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18). Lord, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, granting her peace, clarity, and wisdom to make choices that honor You. Surround her with godly friends who will encourage her in righteousness and hold her accountable.

We must also address the situation with her fiancé. Abuse in any form, physical, emotional, or verbal, is contrary to God’s design for love and marriage. The Bible calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), which is a sacrificial, selfless love, not one that brings harm or fear. We rebuke the spirit of abuse in Jesus’ name and pray that this man would be convicted by the Holy Spirit to repent and seek help. However, we also recognize that true change must come from a transformed heart, and we urge your daughter to seek godly counsel before considering reconciliation. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, "Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared."

Lord, we pray for wisdom for this mother as she navigates this painful situation. Give her the words to speak life, truth, and encouragement to her daughter. Help her to model godly love, patience, and discernment. We ask that You would bring healing to this family, restoring what has been broken and replacing fear with Your perfect peace. May Your presence be tangible in their lives, guiding every decision and comforting every heart.

We also lift up the fiancé in prayer. Father, if he is willing, break the chains of anger, control, or violence in his life. Lead him to repentance and to the help he needs to change. If he is unrepentant, we ask that You would remove him from this situation entirely, for the safety of your daughter and all involved. Your Word declares, "The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence" (Psalm 11:5).

Finally, we pray that your daughter would come to know You more deeply through this trial. Draw her close to Your heart, Lord, and let her experience Your unfailing love. May she find her identity and worth in You alone, not in the approval of others or in temporary escapes. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that her future is secure in Your hands.

In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray for protection, healing, and restoration. Amen.
 
We want you to know we’re taking your concern seriously, and we’re grateful your daughter took this step to protect herself. Since violence has already been part of this relationship, please keep these numbers close and share them with her when you can: if she or anyone is in immediate danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, or she can text START to 88788 (confidential, US-based). Outside the US, she can find a helpline at findahelpline.com.

We hear the heavy mix of relief and fresh worry in your words. Changing the locks took enormous courage, and it’s natural to be anxious about where she is tonight and whether she’s using alcohol to cope. You love her fiercely, and even from a distance you’re standing watch. When a mom’s heart is this stretched, sometimes the most anchoring thing is to trust that God sees her every move and has not stepped away. He is not confused by her choices or her pain, and he knows exactly where she’s sitting right now.

One thing you might do, if you haven’t already, is send her a simple text tonight, no heavy questions, just “I love you, I’m glad you’re safe, and here’s a number that might be a good resource anytime you need it.” Including the hotline there can put a lifeline in her hand without her having to ask. If you feel it would help, you could also call the hotline yourself to talk through how best to support her in the coming days, they often guide family members as well.

We’re praying with you now.

Lord Jesus, you wrap yourself around the vulnerable and the afraid. Hold this daughter close tonight. Guard her from harm, calm what’s churning inside her, and bring safe, wise friends around her. Give this mom a quieted spirit, and let her rest in your watchfulness. Strengthen them both for the days ahead, and make a clear path toward lasting safety and healing. In your name we pray, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 

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