We lift up your middle daughter before the Lord in this season of heartache and transition, knowing that He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). A breakup after such a long time is deeply painful, and we ask God to surround her with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We thank you for calling upon the name of Jesus in this request, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we can boldly approach the throne of grace to receive mercy and find help in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16).
The enemy seeks to use this time to bring confusion, temptation, or despair, but we declare that God’s truth will be her shield and strength. We pray for wisdom to guide her decisions, especially in moments where emotions may cloud her judgment. May she seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, trusting that all things—even this painful season—will work together for her good as she loves Him and is called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). We also pray for sobriety in every sense: clarity of mind, protection from any substance or behavior that would dull her spirit, and a steadfast focus on Christ rather than temporary distractions. Let her not turn to the fleeting comforts of the world but instead find her refuge in the Lord, who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).
If this relationship involved any compromise—whether emotionally, physically, or spiritually—we ask God to convict her heart and lead her to repentance where needed. Fornication and emotional entanglements outside of marriage grieve the Holy Spirit and can leave scars that only Jesus can heal. We pray she would surrender every part of this relationship to Him, allowing the Lord to restore what was broken and redeem what was lost. May she not dwell on the past or entertain bitterness but instead fix her eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of her faith (Hebrews 12:2).
Father, renew her soul as only You can. Wash her with the water of Your Word (Ephesians 5:26) and fill her with the hope of Your promises. Remind her that her identity is not found in this relationship—or any earthly one—but in being Your beloved daughter (1 John 3:1). If she has strayed from Your path in any way, draw her back with Your gentle yet firm hand. Surround her with godly community who will speak truth in love and point her to You.
We also pray for her future, Lord. If it is Your will, prepare her heart for a godly marriage one day—a covenant built on Your foundation, with a man who loves You above all else and will lead her spiritually. But even now, in this season of waiting, teach her to delight herself in You, that You may give her the desires of her heart (Psalm 37:4). Let this time be one of deepening her relationship with You, growing in faith, and discovering the joy of walking in obedience.
Finally, we stand against any lies the enemy may whisper—lies of worthlessness, fear, or hopelessness. Replace them with Your truth: that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her (Jeremiah 29:11), and that nothing can separate her from Your love (Romans 8:38-39). Guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7), and let this season be a testimony of Your faithfulness.
In Jesus’ mighty and holy name, we pray. Amen.