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[Nochaeld]

Father, You will that none would perish but all come to repentance, 2 Pet 3:9. Surely You take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather they turn from their ways and live, Ezek 33:11... You desire all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth, 1 Tim 2:4. Eternal fire was prepared for the devil and his angels, Matt 25:41, not humans that were originally made to image God, Gen 1:27.

Let us be merciful, that we may receive mercy, Matt 5:7... We ask for grace to add fasting, Mk 4:29, which the early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to prayer," (Tertullian, 155AD - 240AD). Help the one compassionate, honest and understanding family member learn to fear God all the day long, Prov 23:17, get saved herself, and witness to truth, 1 Tim 4:16. Forgive this one who has broken covenantal faith and vows with no remorse or repentance, for leading men into adultery and thus destruction, Prov 6:32, for neglecting pastoral counsel, texts and phone calls for months. If a king's heart is as channels of water in Your hand, Prov 21:1, how much more an individual that has chosen to feed on raisin cakes and needs repentance from serious sins, which Hosea's "deal with her" was based on repentance, see Hos 3:1-5. As this one is unwilling to reconcile, wants divorce, says we are done and though I've reached out, prayed and fasted, is still as unwilling to return a text, much less return to me as most of Jerusalem was unwilling to gather under the wings of God Almighty or come to Jesus, over which He publicly wept, they having stoned those sent to rescue them, Matt 23:37...

Soften her heart and protect her (also the youth, and all of us that actually ask God to save her so the little ones do not stumble, Mt 18:16, Mk 9:42, Lk 17:2), keep her from temptation and evil, Matt 6:13. Let LIGHT SHINE that penetrates darkness, Jn 1:5, 1 Jn 1:5, 2 Cor 4:4, 2 Cor 4:6, to open their eyes, turning this one from the power of darkness to light, and power of satan to God, that they may partake of the inheritance along with all who are sanctified by faith in Jesus Christ, Acts 26:18, 1 Cor 1:30. Help her, them (and all of us) use our "Bible Apps" and understand what it says enough to let the Words You have caused to live inside become flesh in real life, Jn 1:12, James 1:22-23. Let "Jesus Christ's love be publicly portrayed," Gal 3:1, and model it to each and every family member, those most near and dear and beyond and blinded -- let us be living epistles known and read by all, 2 Cor 3:2. All Scripture is inspired by God Almighty and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right," 2 Tim 3:15-16. "Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one," John 17:15. "Sanctify us by the truth; Your word is truth," John 17:17. Thank you in The Name of Jesus, The One Mediator between God and Man, 1 Tim 2:5, in Jesus' Name.

"I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh," Ezek 36:26.
“But this is the covenant I'll make... I'll put My law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I'll be their God; they'll be My people," Jer 31:33.
Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless one is born again," Jn3:3, "Do not be amazed that I said, ‘You must be born again,'" John 3:7.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep anguish in your heart as you pour out this prayer for your marriage and the salvation of your spouse. The pain of broken covenants, unrepentant sin, and the silence of a hardened heart is a heavy burden to bear. Yet we stand with you in the truth of God’s Word, knowing that nothing is impossible for Him who calls the lost to repentance and softens the hardest of hearts.

First, we must address the gravity of what has transpired. The breaking of marriage vows is not merely a personal failing, it is a violation of God’s holy design. Scripture is clear: "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). The one who has led others into adultery has not only sinned against you but against God’s commandments, and the consequences are severe: "He who commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does it destroys his own soul" (Proverbs 6:32). This is not a matter to be taken lightly, nor is it one that can be swept aside without repentance. The Lord calls for a turning away from sin, not a continuation in it.

Yet even in this darkness, we cling to the hope of the Gospel. You have rightly pointed to the heart of the matter, salvation through Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only by His blood that sins are washed away. Your spouse, like all of us, was created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27), but sin has distorted that image. The call to repentance is not a call to condemnation but to restoration: "The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9). We must pray fervently that the Holy Spirit would convict and draw her to Christ, for apart from Him, there is no true change.

The hardness of heart you describe is not unlike the stubbornness of Israel, whom the Lord lamented over: "O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those who are sent to you! How often I would have gathered your children together, even as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!" (Matthew 23:37). Yet even in their rebellion, God did not abandon them. He sent His Son to die for them, and He continues to call the wayward back to Himself. We must not grow weary in praying for her salvation, for the Lord is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).

We also lift up the youth and others who may be stumbling because of this situation. Jesus warned, "But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea" (Mark 9:42). The ripple effects of sin are far-reaching, but so is the power of God’s grace. We pray that the light of Christ would penetrate the darkness in this family, exposing sin and leading to repentance.

Your commitment to prayer and fasting is commendable. The early church understood that some strongholds can only be broken through the combination of prayer, fasting, and the Word of God. As Tertullian said, "Fasting and giving lend wings to prayer." We join you in asking the Lord to strengthen you in this spiritual battle, for we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12).

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, yet full of faith in Your power to save and restore. Lord, You see the brokenness in this marriage, the hardness of heart, and the sin that has taken root. We ask You to soften the heart of this spouse, to remove the heart of stone and give her a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Break the chains of deception that bind her, and let Your light shine into the darkness of her soul.

Father, we pray for conviction of sin. Where there is unrepentance, bring godly sorrow that leads to life (2 Corinthians 7:10). Where there is rebellion, bring humility. Where there is hardness, bring tenderness. We ask that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the reality of her need for a Savior. Draw her to Yourself, Lord, for no one can come to You unless the Father draws them (John 6:44).

We also pray for protection over the youth and all who are affected by this situation. Guard their hearts and minds, and let them see Your love and truth in the midst of this trial. Keep them from stumbling, and use this time to draw them closer to You.

Lord, we ask for Your grace to sustain this one who has been faithful in prayer and fasting. Strengthen them in body, soul, and spirit. Give them wisdom in how to respond to this situation, and let them be a living testimony of Your love and faithfulness. May their life be a letter written by Your Spirit, known and read by all (2 Corinthians 3:2).

We pray for the family member who is compassionate and understanding. Give them boldness to speak the truth in love, and wisdom to know how to witness effectively. May they fear You all the day long (Proverbs 23:17) and grow in their own faith as they seek to point others to Christ.

Father, we know that You desire all to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth (1 Timothy 2:4). We trust in Your goodness and Your power to save. Even now, we declare that nothing is too hard for You (Jeremiah 32:17). Bring revival to this family, Lord. Let Your Word take root and bear fruit in their lives. Sanctify them by Your truth, for Your Word is truth (John 17:17).

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One Mediator between God and man, the Author and Perfecter of our faith. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.

In the days ahead, continue to stand on the promises of God. Do not lose heart, for the Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). If your spouse remains unrepentant, remember that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Seek wise, biblical counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor, and surround yourself with believers who can support you in prayer and encouragement.

The road ahead may be difficult, but the Lord has not abandoned you. He is working even now, and His plans for you are for good and not for harm, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and let your life be a testimony of His faithfulness.

 

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We hear how heavy this is, the silence, the finality of “we are done,” the ache of watching someone you love walk away from vows and from the Lord. It is a kind of death, and the grief that comes with it is deep and disorienting. We don’t want to rush past that, because you’re bearing it even as you continue to pray and fast. That kind of steady, costly love is not wasted on God.

We also notice how isolated this path has become for you. You’ve been carrying this weight largely on your own, reaching out without response. That is a hard place to stay. One thing we’ve seen help people in similar pain is simply not to walk it alone, even if your spouse won’t engage. Is there a pastor, a trustworthy elder, or a mature friend you could meet with in person occasionally? Not just for advice, but to sit with you in the grief, to pray with you, and to help you stay anchored when hope feels thin. Sometimes the strongest thing we can do is let another believer step into the silence with us.

We also want to gently remind you: while you remain faithful in prayer and fasting, your own soul needs care too. The strain of interceding without relief can wear you down in ways you may not feel yet. So we’re glad you reached out here, and we hope you’ll keep letting others share the burden.

Let’s pray now.

Lord Jesus, You know the depth of this pain, the betrayal, the broken covenant, the ache for a spouse who has turned away. We ask You to hold our friend securely. Wrap Your presence around them in the lonely hours, and let them know they are seen and loved. For the one who has hardened her heart, we pray, not as those who can force change, but as those who trust You to do what only You can. Let Your light penetrate whatever darkness holds her. Protect the young ones caught in this; give them peace and keep them from stumbling. And for our friend, grant wisdom about when to keep knocking and when to rest in You. Sustain their spirit, and bring alongside them others who will pray and weep and wait with them. We ask all this in the name of Jesus, our Mediator. Amen.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

It is well that you have poured out your heart before the Lord, for He alone can turn the heart of stone into a heart of flesh. The sorrow you bear is heavy, yet remember that the covenant God of Israel is a God of grace, and that He takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that the sinner should turn from her way and live. This very longing of your soul for her repentance is perhaps the Spirit’s own intercession within you, and a token that you are not to cease praying, even when all seems hard and cold.

Yet beware of a false hope. There is a repentance that arises from fear of consequences, a superficial remorse that leaves the heart unchanged. Such is the repentance of those who, under judgment, cry out but return to their sin when the storm passes. True repentance is a divine work, not a human resolution. It comes not by the terrors of the law alone, but by the breaking heart of love, when the sinner looks upon Him whom she has pierced and mourns for her sin because it is sin against such love. That is the repentance which needs not to be repented of. Pray, then, not merely for her to feel the bitterness of her way, but that the Lord Jesus would reveal Himself to her soul, and that His goodness would lead her to a godly sorrow that worketh life.

You have, I trust, cried unto the Lord that He would give her a new heart. This is the very promise of the covenant: “A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you.” That heart will not come by your pleading alone, but by the sovereign grace of Him who quickens the dead. Yet plead on, for He is honoured by your reliance upon His word. Remember, too, that the Father of the prodigal did not wait for his son to draw near; He saw him a great way off, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. The Lord’s mercy is swifter than our repentance. He is ready to receive the returning one with full restoration, no mere hired servant, but a son, a spouse. Even now, the Lord Jesus says to the backslider, though she has played the harlot, “Return unto Me; for I am married unto you.” O wonder of grace! Can these adamantine gates of the heart hold out against such love?

Let not your own soul be cast down in despair. Look at Manasseh, who filled Jerusalem with blood and set up idols in the very temple; yet when he was in affliction, he humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers, and the Lord was entreated of him. No sinner is beyond the reach of sovereign mercy. Your wife may seem as hard as the nether millstone, but the Spirit can break that stone as easily as the hammer of the quarryman breaks the flint. Only do not mistake initial stirrings for conversion; true repentance will bring forth fruits meet for repentance. It will be a lasting, deep, practical turning from sin unto God. Pray that her repentance may be of that heavenly sort which glorifies God, and not the mere terror of a frightened conscience.

As for yourself, take heed that your own heart remains tender. It is easy to grow bitter under such provocation, and to let a root of resentment spring up. But remember that you also were once a rebel, and that Christ loved you and gave Himself for you. Let His love to His spouse be the pattern of your own patience and intercession. Keep your own repentance living and fresh; let the broken and contrite heart be your daily sacrifice, for the Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken spirit. And in due season, He may grant unto her also the same brokenness.

Commit her into the hands of Him who alone can turn the heart of the king, and how much more the heart of a wayward child of the covenant. Pray on, fast on, but rest your soul not upon your importunity, but upon the finished work of Jesus. The blood of the covenant has power to cleanse even this. The love of Christ, which surpasseth knowledge, is still able to melt the frozen spirit. Wait upon the Lord, and be of good courage; for He that shall come, will come, and will not tarry. And if it be that the Lord sees fit to prolong the trial, yet He will sustain you, and in His own time, His purposes of grace shall be fulfilled.