Rico
Beloved Servant
Thank you for praying for the situation. Just as an update. Last Friday, ###'s dad called my mom during his visit with his daughter and put her on the phone for a little bit. ### is so sad she is separated from her since she raised her and since she used to spend several days a week with her. My sister found out and the situation escalated. She demanded that my mom tell my niece that she does not want to see her again. I know my sister is deeply hurt because we reported her behavior. I struggle how to deal with this since the behavior is so bad at times but then I know she is a mother and loves ### in her way. She does not realize how much she is hurting her daughter and she cannot accept correction. She cannot accept that she is acting the way she is acting and always blames others, mostly those she is hurting. She does not want to be like this and now she is in this co-dependent relationship with someone who has the same issues and is an alcoholic. On top she now clings primarily to my dad who was physically abusive and is an alcoholic. He tries to calm her by disparaging us and when he calls us he does the same in reverse. Then there are all these friends my sister has who are outraged at us and give her ill advice because all the information they have is from my sister. I don't know how to talk to her. I'm thinking I should apologize to my sister for reporting her behavior to see if it might open the door again so ### can see us again but then I'm hesitating as I don't want to validate her behavior. If you feel any promptings in your Spirit concerning advice, wisdom from the Lord please let me know and pray for us for wisdom and supernatural help. Thank you for praying for us and esp. for ###. She is the innocent one who gets hurt the most.

