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I love this one ###, I've been trying my max to forget him for past ### months and still not able to heal from this.....I love him very much
To get the person ### love
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We understand the deep longing and pain youâre experiencing, and we want to speak truth and life into your situation with love and biblical clarity. First, we must address something critical: your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to God the Father. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to turn to Him in repentance and faith. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without Christ, all our effortsâeven in love or healingâare in vain.
Now, let us speak to the heart of your request. The pain youâre feeling is real, and we do not minimize it, but we must examine it through the lens of Scripture. The Bible teaches that our hearts are deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9) and that human love, apart from Godâs design, can lead us into idolatry and emotional bondage. You say youâve tried to forget this person for months but cannot heal. This suggests that your love for him may have become an obsession or an emotional stronghold, which is not Godâs will for you. The Lord calls us to *"love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength"* (Mark 12:30, WEB). When our affections for a personâespecially someone who is not our spouseâconsume us to this degree, it is a sign that our love is misplaced. Our primary love, devotion, and identity must be in Christ alone.
We also must ask: Is this man someone you could biblically marry? The Bible is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this person is not a believer, Scripture explicitly warns against being *"unequally yoked"* with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he is already married to someone else, then your love for him is adulterous in nature, and you must repent and turn away from it (Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:28). If this is a same-sex attraction, we must lovingly but firmly say that this is sin, and God calls you to turn from it (1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Romans 1:26-27). There is no gray area in Scripture on these matters, and we speak this truth not to condemn you but to call you to freedom in Christ.
Your inability to "heal" or move on may also indicate that you have not fully surrendered this relationship to God. True healing comes when we release our idolsâeven the idol of a personâand trust the Lord to fill the void in our hearts. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). This does not mean God will give you this man, but that as you delight in *Him*, He will align your desires with His perfect will. Right now, your heart is fixed on this person, but God wants your heart fixed on *Him*.
Let us also address the idea of "trying to forget" someone. Forgetting is not the goalâ*surrender* is. You cannot white-knuckle your way out of this pain, but you *can* choose to lay it at the feet of Jesus daily. *"Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). This requires active trust, prayer, and sometimes even fasting to break emotional strongholds. You may need to cut off all contact with this person, delete messages or photos, and avoid places or things that trigger your emotions. *"If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna"* (Matthew 5:29, WEB). While this verse speaks literally of sin, the principle applies: if something is causing you to stumble spiritually, remove it from your life.
Lastly, we want to remind you that Godâs plan for you is *good*, even if it doesnât feel that way right now. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). If this man is not Godâs will for you, then clinging to him will only bring you more pain. But if you trust the Lord, He will either restore this relationship *in a godly way* (if it aligns with Scripture) or He will bring someone far better into your lifeâa man who loves *Him* first and will love *you* as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Either way, your job is to seek Godâs kingdom *first* (Matthew 6:33).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious sister to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Lord, we ask that You break every ungodly soul tie and emotional stronghold that has kept her bound to this man. If this relationship is not of You, we pray that You would sever it completely and give her the grace to let go. Father, forgive her for any idolatry or sin in this area, and cleanse her heart by the blood of Jesus. Fill the emptiness she feels with *Your* love, *Your* peace, and *Your* purpose. Help her to delight in You above all else, trusting that Your plans for her are good.
If this man is not Your will for her, Lord, remove him from her heart and mind. Give her the strength to cut off all ungodly connections and to walk in freedom. If there is any sexual sin or impurity involved, we rebuke it in Jesusâ name and pray for repentance and restoration. Holy Spirit, convict her of any area where she has not surrendered to You, and give her the courage to obey Your voice.
Father, we pray that You would bring godly, Christian men into her lifeâmen who will honor You and pursue her with pure intentions. Prepare her to be a wife who reflects Your love and holiness. If marriage is Your will for her, let it be a covenant that glorifies You. And if You are calling her to a season of singleness, give her contentment and joy in You alone.
We bind every spirit of rejection, loneliness, and despair in Jesusâ name. Let her find her identity in Christ and not in any man. Surround her with godly community who will speak truth and encouragement into her life. Heal her heart, Lord, and restore her hope. Let this season of pain become a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to spend time in Godâs Word daily, especially in Psalms and the Gospels, to realign your heart with His. Seek Christian counseling if needed, and surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, do so todayâHe is the only One who can truly satisfy your soul. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28, WEB). Trust Him, even when it hurts. He is faithful.
Now, let us speak to the heart of your request. The pain youâre feeling is real, and we do not minimize it, but we must examine it through the lens of Scripture. The Bible teaches that our hearts are deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9) and that human love, apart from Godâs design, can lead us into idolatry and emotional bondage. You say youâve tried to forget this person for months but cannot heal. This suggests that your love for him may have become an obsession or an emotional stronghold, which is not Godâs will for you. The Lord calls us to *"love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength"* (Mark 12:30, WEB). When our affections for a personâespecially someone who is not our spouseâconsume us to this degree, it is a sign that our love is misplaced. Our primary love, devotion, and identity must be in Christ alone.
We also must ask: Is this man someone you could biblically marry? The Bible is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this person is not a believer, Scripture explicitly warns against being *"unequally yoked"* with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he is already married to someone else, then your love for him is adulterous in nature, and you must repent and turn away from it (Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:28). If this is a same-sex attraction, we must lovingly but firmly say that this is sin, and God calls you to turn from it (1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Romans 1:26-27). There is no gray area in Scripture on these matters, and we speak this truth not to condemn you but to call you to freedom in Christ.
Your inability to "heal" or move on may also indicate that you have not fully surrendered this relationship to God. True healing comes when we release our idolsâeven the idol of a personâand trust the Lord to fill the void in our hearts. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). This does not mean God will give you this man, but that as you delight in *Him*, He will align your desires with His perfect will. Right now, your heart is fixed on this person, but God wants your heart fixed on *Him*.
Let us also address the idea of "trying to forget" someone. Forgetting is not the goalâ*surrender* is. You cannot white-knuckle your way out of this pain, but you *can* choose to lay it at the feet of Jesus daily. *"Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). This requires active trust, prayer, and sometimes even fasting to break emotional strongholds. You may need to cut off all contact with this person, delete messages or photos, and avoid places or things that trigger your emotions. *"If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna"* (Matthew 5:29, WEB). While this verse speaks literally of sin, the principle applies: if something is causing you to stumble spiritually, remove it from your life.
Lastly, we want to remind you that Godâs plan for you is *good*, even if it doesnât feel that way right now. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). If this man is not Godâs will for you, then clinging to him will only bring you more pain. But if you trust the Lord, He will either restore this relationship *in a godly way* (if it aligns with Scripture) or He will bring someone far better into your lifeâa man who loves *Him* first and will love *you* as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Either way, your job is to seek Godâs kingdom *first* (Matthew 6:33).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious sister to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Lord, we ask that You break every ungodly soul tie and emotional stronghold that has kept her bound to this man. If this relationship is not of You, we pray that You would sever it completely and give her the grace to let go. Father, forgive her for any idolatry or sin in this area, and cleanse her heart by the blood of Jesus. Fill the emptiness she feels with *Your* love, *Your* peace, and *Your* purpose. Help her to delight in You above all else, trusting that Your plans for her are good.
If this man is not Your will for her, Lord, remove him from her heart and mind. Give her the strength to cut off all ungodly connections and to walk in freedom. If there is any sexual sin or impurity involved, we rebuke it in Jesusâ name and pray for repentance and restoration. Holy Spirit, convict her of any area where she has not surrendered to You, and give her the courage to obey Your voice.
Father, we pray that You would bring godly, Christian men into her lifeâmen who will honor You and pursue her with pure intentions. Prepare her to be a wife who reflects Your love and holiness. If marriage is Your will for her, let it be a covenant that glorifies You. And if You are calling her to a season of singleness, give her contentment and joy in You alone.
We bind every spirit of rejection, loneliness, and despair in Jesusâ name. Let her find her identity in Christ and not in any man. Surround her with godly community who will speak truth and encouragement into her life. Heal her heart, Lord, and restore her hope. Let this season of pain become a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to spend time in Godâs Word daily, especially in Psalms and the Gospels, to realign your heart with His. Seek Christian counseling if needed, and surround yourself with believers who will hold you accountable. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, do so todayâHe is the only One who can truly satisfy your soul. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28, WEB). Trust Him, even when it hurts. He is faithful.
We're here for you, dear sister. We understand that the pain you're feeling is real and it's okay to feel this way. But remember, God is always there, ready to comfort and guide you. Let's focus on Him together.
We've been praying for you, asking God to heal your heart and fill the emptiness you feel with His love and peace. We're believing that He will give you the strength to let go of this person if it's not His will for you, and to trust Him with your future.
We also want to encourage you to spend time in God's Word each day, especially in the Psalms and the Gospels. They're filled with His love and promises for you. And if you haven't already, consider seeking Christian counseling. It can provide a safe space to process your feelings and gain biblical perspective.
Keep trusting in Jesus, even when it's hard. He sees you, He loves you, and He's got a good plan for your life.
We've been praying for you, asking God to heal your heart and fill the emptiness you feel with His love and peace. We're believing that He will give you the strength to let go of this person if it's not His will for you, and to trust Him with your future.
We also want to encourage you to spend time in God's Word each day, especially in the Psalms and the Gospels. They're filled with His love and promises for you. And if you haven't already, consider seeking Christian counseling. It can provide a safe space to process your feelings and gain biblical perspective.
Keep trusting in Jesus, even when it's hard. He sees you, He loves you, and He's got a good plan for your life.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
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Dwelling and Thriving in Godâs grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against Godâs people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: âPraying for othersâ
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in Godâs grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against Godâs people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: âPraying for othersâ
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesusâ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesusâ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift your heart before the Lord in prayer. These past days, we have been earnestly interceding for you, asking God to bring healing and peace to the deep places of your heart where this love has taken root. We understand how painful it is to carry this burden, especially when youâve been trying so hard to let go and still find yourself wrestling with these feelings. You are not alone in thisâwe are standing with you, believing that God sees your ache and is tenderly drawing near to you in it.
If the Lord has begun to bring comfort, renewal, or even a shift in your heart, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the encouragement someone else needs to keep trusting Him in their own struggles. And if this weight still feels heavy, if the longing remains and the healing hasnât come as youâd hoped, we want you to know that we are here to keep praying with you. You donât have to carry this silentlyâpost your request again, and let us continue to seek the Lord alongside you for breakthrough and surrender.
We are praying that God will fill the empty spaces in your heart with His loveâa love that is steadfast, perfect, and never fails. May He give you the strength to release what isnât His will for you and the grace to trust His plan, even when itâs painful. May you feel His presence in a real and tangible way as you seek Him, and may He remind you that your worth and future are secure in Christ alone.
We are cheering you on, believing for your freedom and joy. Keep pressing into JesusâHe is faithful to complete the work He has started in you.
If the Lord has begun to bring comfort, renewal, or even a shift in your heart, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the encouragement someone else needs to keep trusting Him in their own struggles. And if this weight still feels heavy, if the longing remains and the healing hasnât come as youâd hoped, we want you to know that we are here to keep praying with you. You donât have to carry this silentlyâpost your request again, and let us continue to seek the Lord alongside you for breakthrough and surrender.
We are praying that God will fill the empty spaces in your heart with His loveâa love that is steadfast, perfect, and never fails. May He give you the strength to release what isnât His will for you and the grace to trust His plan, even when itâs painful. May you feel His presence in a real and tangible way as you seek Him, and may He remind you that your worth and future are secure in Christ alone.
We are cheering you on, believing for your freedom and joy. Keep pressing into JesusâHe is faithful to complete the work He has started in you.
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