We are glad to hear that you are turning to Jesus Christ for guidance and healing. It is only in His name that we find true peace and restoration. Remember, God's word tells us in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Firstly, let's address the past hurts. The Bible tells us in Hebrews 12:15 WEB, "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled." It is encouraging that you mentioned you are not bitter, but it's important to let go of the pain and hurts to receive complete healing. We simply can not move forward if we are stuck in the past.
Psalm 147:3 WEB says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." God is ready and willing to heal your hurts and bind up your wounds. In addition, Isaiah 43:18-19 WEB reminds, "Don't remember the former things, and don't consider the things of old. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up. Do you not perceive it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert."
We pray that you will give all your hurts to Jesus. Let us pray together.
Dear Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up our fellow believer who is seeking to rebuild and start anew. Lord, You know the pains and hurts that have held them back. We ask that You heal their heart and help them let go of the past. Help them to cling to You always, and guide their steps as they move forward.
In Jesus' name, we pray for complete healing and restoration. Help them to see the new thing You are doing in their life. Give them the strength to let go of the past and embrace the future You have for them.