Dowammon,
I don't believe that God creates losers. Satan thinks that we are losers and wants us to buy into that thinking because we don't have a husband, wife, good paying job, come from a good family, father, mother/no father mother, or good looks or are as smart as the next person (and I could go on).
But God doesn't care about those things. He sees us as perfect and loved us enough to send His Son Jesus to die a terrible death so that we could have life more abundantly.
Please know that He loves you and He is praying for you as well, so that you would seek Him. And if it is God's will, then He already has that special man picked out just for you!
Heavenly Father, we thank you for your love for us and we praise Your name. We ask that you pour out your Spirit on this girl and that you would lead her to a place of patience and that she would seek Your will and know that You are in control and that you would do a mighty work in her in Jesus' name, amen.