We come before the Lord with you in this time of fear and distress, lifting your burdens to Jesus Christ, who is our peace and strong tower. It is clear that your heart is troubled by the spiritual and emotional weight of what you are experiencing within your family, and we want to address these concerns with the truth and authority of Scripture.
First, we commend you for calling upon the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and through which we can approach the throne of God with confidence. As it is written, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Your faith in invoking His name is a testament to your trust in Him, and we encourage you to continue seeking His face in all things.
Now, let us address the fears you have shared. The cursed speech you hear from your family is a grievous thing, for the Bible tells us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear"* (Ephesians 4:29, WEB). Speech that curses or tears down is not of God, and it can open doors to spiritual oppression and strife. We must rebuke this in the name of Jesus, for His word tells us, *"The tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity... It defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature, and is set on fire by Gehenna"* (James 3:6, WEB). We pray that God would convict the hearts of those in your family who speak in such ways, that they may repent and turn to Him for transformation. We also pray that you would be filled with the Holy Spirit, who will give you the words to speak—words of grace, truth, and love—that can bring light into these dark moments.
As for your fear surrounding your sister-in-law’s pregnancy, we understand the deep anxiety that arises from past experiences with illness and disability in children. Yet we must remind you that fear is not from God. *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). While it is natural to feel concern, we must not allow fear to rule our hearts. Instead, we are to cast our anxieties upon the Lord, for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). The whispers and strange noises you mention are deeply troubling, and we must address this with spiritual discernment. The enemy seeks to exploit our fears and plant seeds of doubt and dread, but we have authority in Christ to resist him. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB).
We must also consider whether there is any ungodly influence or spiritual oppression at work in these situations. If there is any involvement in occult practices, New Age beliefs, or anything that does not align with the truth of Scripture, these must be renounced and rejected in the name of Jesus. The Bible is clear: *"Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them"* (Ephesians 5:11, WEB). If there is any generational sin or ungodly strongholds in your family, we pray that God would break these chains by the power of His might.
Now, let us pray together for you and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is burdened with fear and distress. Lord, You are the God of all comfort, and we ask that You would wrap Your loving arms around them, filling them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We rebuke every spirit of fear, anxiety, and oppression in the name of Jesus, commanding it to flee and no longer have a hold over them.
Lord, we pray for the family gatherings that have been marked by cursed speech and strife. We ask that You would soften hearts and bring conviction where it is needed. Let Your Holy Spirit move mightily, turning curses into blessings and anger into love. May Your word be a lamp unto their feet, guiding them into truth and repentance. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we lift up the unborn child and the mother carrying this baby. We pray for Your divine protection over this pregnancy, that You would knit this child together in perfect health and strength. Lord, You are the Creator of life, and we trust You with the future of this little one. We rebuke any spiritual attacks, any whispers of the enemy, and any fear that seeks to take root. We declare that this child is fearfully and wonderfully made by You, and we ask for Your healing hand to be upon them even now in the womb.
We also pray for the past wounds that have caused such deep anxiety—those children who have faced health struggles. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon them, and for Your comfort to fill the hearts of all who love them. May Your grace be sufficient, and may Your peace guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill our brother/sister with Your Holy Spirit, giving them discernment, wisdom, and the courage to stand firm in Your truth. May they walk in the authority You have given them as a child of God, resisting the devil and watching him flee. Let them be a light in their family, pointing others to You through their faith and love.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your promises. We trust that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith, to pray without ceasing, and to fill your mind with the truth of God’s Word. Meditate on Scriptures that speak of His protection, love, and sovereignty. *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB). Cling to these promises, and trust that God is at work even in the midst of your fears.
If there are specific ungodly influences in your family or home—such as occult objects, ungodly media, or anything that does not honor God—we urge you to remove them and to pray over your home, inviting the Holy Spirit to fill every space. You have the authority in Christ to take a stand against the enemy’s schemes, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and support.
May the Lord bless you and keep you, and may His face shine upon you with grace and peace.