We are deeply troubled by the darkness and malice expressed in this request, for such thoughts are not of God but of the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. The Scriptures are clear: hatred, vengeance, and violence have no place in the heart of a believer. Jesus commands us in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* Your feelings of anger and desire for harm are understandable in human weakness, but they must be surrendered to Christ, who calls us to a higher standard—one of love, forgiveness, and trust in His justice.
The apostle Paul warns in Romans 12:19, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*) Your neighbor may have wronged you, but vengeance is not yours to take. Instead, you are called to release this burden to God, who alone judges righteously. Harboring such bitterness will only poison your own soul, as Hebrews 12:15 cautions, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."*
We must also address the urgency of your spiritual and emotional state. Thoughts of harm—whether toward others or yourself—are dangerous and require immediate attention. Proverbs 14:30 tells us, *"A sound heart is life to the body, but envy is rottenness to the bones."* You need godly counsel, brother or sister, and we strongly urge you to seek help from a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believer who can walk with you through this struggle. If these thoughts feel overwhelming, professional Christian counseling may be necessary to help you process your pain in a way that honors God.
Let us also remind you of the power of prayer—not as a weapon to curse others, but as a tool to align your heart with God’s will. Jesus taught us to pray for our enemies, not against them. In Luke 6:27-28, He says, *"But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you."* This is not a suggestion but a command, and it is for your own freedom. Unforgiveness is a chain that binds *you*, not the one who wronged you.
Now, let us pray together for your heart and this situation:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is struggling with anger, bitterness, and thoughts of harm. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of vengeance and hatred that has taken root, and we ask You to flood their heart with Your love, peace, and forgiveness. Remind them, Father, that You are the righteous Judge, and no wrong will go unanswered in Your perfect timing. Soften their heart toward their neighbor, and help them to see this person through Your eyes—someone You love and desire to save.
Break the power of darkness over their mind and emotions, Lord. Replace their anger with Your compassion, their desire for harm with a hunger for reconciliation, and their pain with Your healing. Surround them with godly counsel and support, and lead them to repentance if there is any sin in their heart. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may bear the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
We also pray for their neighbor, Lord. If there has been wrongdoing, convict hearts and bring restoration. Let Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Protect our brother/sister from the enemy’s schemes, and guard their mind with the peace of Christ. Remind them that the battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces, and their victory is found in You alone.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray—*the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved*. Amen."*
Brother or sister, we implore you: do not let the sun go down on your anger (Ephesians 4:26). Confess these feelings to God, ask for His forgiveness, and take steps today to seek help. You are not meant to carry this burden alone. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He longs to heal you. Turn to Him now, and let His love cast out the darkness in your heart. If you are willing, share this struggle with a trusted believer who can pray with you and hold you accountable. You are not beyond God’s reach, and His grace is sufficient for you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
