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[Gwoarnaurwick]

I am staying with my hus, father inlow, mother inlow, and brother inlow. Brother inlow is having 35 years as an electrician; he has lots of money, all work cash has been saved, and he doesn't care about any loan for the house, which is for him. All expenses are spent by my hus. Taking all house expenses, loans, and hospital expenses, he never cares about anything; he just works, enjoys with friends, and enjoys life having alcohol.

Father inlow is not well. Taking that advantage, mother inlow and one of the distant sisterlows are forcing husbsnd to forward his marriage proposal, and all expenses and all things have to be done by my hus. He already borrowed lots of money from many people and lots of loans... house loan, vehicle loan, expenses, hospital expenses—all he is taking care of; his brother never takes care. No one thinks. Mother inlow is having a different character; if brother inlow just gives her 2000 rs, then she shouts at us when we go outside with our child. But she always supports brother inlow, coming drunken late night. We spend all money, all expenses, still neglect, and still forcing more expenses upon us.

Oh God, let this marriage proposal go away. Distant sisterlow is forcing because this proposal is taken by her; it's a girl near by her, and distant sisterlow has taken control over my hus and motherinlow. She knows how to make them do all things. Husbamd never listens to me; once he becomes burdened with all financials, he shouts at me, and I am only there to hear all pains. No one cares; all are putting more and more burden. He got an opportunity to move to Hyderabad but is not choosing. Let his mind change, let him get the transfer letter to Hyderabad, or let him have a thought. He is not even able to think of me or child things in between this. All things are putting on elder son, my hus. Why elder sons suffer and younger ones always enjoy and are supported always.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep sorrow and burden in your heart, and we grieve with you over the injustice and hardship you and your husband are enduring in this home. The weight of financial strain, emotional neglect, and the ungodly demands being placed upon you both are not of the Lord, and we stand with you in prayer to seek His righteous intervention. The Scripture reminds us in **Proverbs 22:22-23**, *"Don’t exploit the poor because they are poor, and don’t crush the needy in court; for Yahweh will plead their case, and plunder the life of those who plunder them."* Your husband is being crushed under the weight of irresponsibility and greed from those who should be supporting him, and this is not pleasing to God.

First, we must address the spiritual battle at hand. The enemy seeks to destroy families through division, financial bondage, and ungodly alliances. Your mother-in-law and the distant sister-in-law are being used as tools of manipulation, and your brother-in-law’s selfishness and drunkenness are a stumbling block to the entire household. **1 Corinthians 6:9-10** warns, *"Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* The behavior in this home—drunkenness, greed, manipulation, and neglect—is not of God, and it is time to pray for conviction and repentance over these sins.

Your husband’s anger toward you is a sign of his own brokenness and overwhelming stress, but it is not justified. **Ephesians 4:26-27** says, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil."* His frustration should not be taken out on you, and we pray the Lord softens his heart to see you as his helper, not his punching bag. You are suffering unjustly, and the Lord sees this. **1 Peter 3:1-4** encourages wives, *"In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear. Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning... but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in God’s sight."* Your strength in this trial is a testimony, but you must also speak truth in love when necessary. Have you gently but firmly confronted your husband about the spiritual and financial destruction this family dynamic is causing? Sometimes, a godly rebuke is needed to wake someone up.

The forced marriage proposal is another scheme of the enemy to further bind your husband in financial and emotional chains. **2 Corinthians 6:14** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* If this proposed marriage is not of the Lord—if it is rooted in manipulation, greed, or ungodly motives—then it must be stopped. Pray that the Lord exposes the true intentions behind this proposal and that your husband’s eyes are opened to the trap being set for him. The distant sister-in-law’s control over your mother-in-law and husband is a form of witchcraft, and we must bind it in Jesus’ name. **Ephesians 6:12** reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."*

As for the opportunity in Hyderabad, we pray the Lord removes every hindrance—spiritual, emotional, or practical—that is keeping your husband from making this move. Sometimes, the Lord uses physical distance to break ungodly soul ties and free His people from oppressive environments. **Genesis 12:1** says, *"Now Yahweh said to Abram, ‘Leave your country, and your relatives, and your father’s house, and go to the land that I will show you.’"* If Hyderabad is the Lord’s will, He will make the way clear. Pray that your husband’s heart is opened to this possibility and that he seeks the Lord’s wisdom above the opinions of man.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her husband in their time of deep distress. Lord, You see the injustice, the manipulation, and the financial bondage they are under. You know the schemes of the enemy to destroy this marriage and this family through greed, drunkenness, and ungodly control. We ask You to intervene, Lord. Expose every hidden motive, every lie, and every unrighteous demand being placed upon them. Convict the hearts of the brother-in-law, the mother-in-law, and the distant sister-in-law. Let them see the error of their ways and repent, or remove their influence from this home.

Father, we pray for this husband’s heart. Soften it, Lord. Give him wisdom to see the traps being set for him and the courage to say no to ungodly demands. Break the spirit of anger and frustration in him and replace it with Your peace and discernment. Help him to see his wife as his ally, not his outlet for frustration. Restore their marriage, Lord, and let them unite in purpose and faith against these attacks.

We bind the spirit of manipulation and control over this marriage proposal. If it is not of You, Lord, let it fall apart. Let no weapon formed against this family prosper. We pray for the opportunity in Hyderabad—if it is Your will, Lord, remove every obstacle and give him the courage to go. Let this move be a fresh start, a place of provision and peace for this family.

Father, we also pray for this sister’s strength. Comfort her heart, Lord. Let her not grow bitter or weary in well-doing. Surround her with Your peace and remind her that You are her Provider, even when all seems hopeless. Give her the words to speak to her husband in love and truth, and let her be a light in this dark household.

We rebuke the spirits of greed, drunkenness, and division in Jesus’ name. Let Your will be done in this situation, Lord. Bring justice, bring freedom, and bring restoration. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

Finally, sister, we encourage you to keep your eyes on the Lord. **Psalm 37:5-6** says, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* Do not lose hope. The Lord is your defender, and He will fight for you. Stay in prayer, stay in the Word, and do not be afraid to seek godly counsel or support from a pastor or trusted believer. If your husband continues to refuse to move or make changes, pray for the Lord to open his eyes to the consequences of staying in this toxic environment. Sometimes, the Lord allows hardship to push His people toward His perfect will.

Stand firm, and trust that the Lord will deliver you. He is faithful.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh, dear sister, we hear your cry and we're here with you. It's heartbreaking to see your husband burdened and your family torn apart by greed, manipulation, and selfishness. We've been praying for you and your husband, asking God to intervene and bring healing to your home.

We believe that God is a God of justice, and He sees the unfairness you and your husband are facing. We pray that God exposes the true intentions behind the forced marriage proposal and the manipulation of your mother-in-law and distant sister-in-law. We ask God to give your husband the courage to stand up against these ungodly demands and to seek His will above all else.

We also pray for your husband's heart to be softened. May God give him wisdom to see the traps being set for him and the courage to say no to ungodly demands. We pray that your husband sees you as his ally, not his punching bag. We ask God to restore your marriage and to help you both unite in purpose and faith against these attacks.

We bind the spirit of manipulation and control over this marriage proposal. If it's not of God, we pray that it falls apart. We also pray for the opportunity in ### - if it's God's will, we ask Him to remove every obstacle and give your husband the courage to go. We pray that this move would be a fresh start, a place of provision and peace for your family.

We encourage you to keep your eyes on the Lord. Commit your way to Him, trust in Him, and He will bring out your righteousness as the light and your justice as the noon day sun. Stay in prayer, stay in the Word, and don't be afraid to seek godly counsel or support from a pastor or trusted believer.

We're standing with you, sister. Keep fighting the good fight of faith, and remember, God is on your side. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We want to lift you up in continued prayer, dear sister, as we know the heavy burdens you are carrying within your home and heart. It has been several days since you shared your struggles with us—the financial strain, the emotional weight of feeling unheard, the unfair expectations placed upon your husband, and the pain of seeing your family’s dynamics cause such distress. We have been praying earnestly for God’s intervention in these situations, asking Him to bring peace where there is chaos, wisdom where there is confusion, and provision where there is lack.

We know how deeply you long for relief—whether it is the release from this forced marriage proposal, a change of heart in your husband regarding the move to Hyderabad, or a softening of hearts within your family, especially toward your husband and you. The Lord sees the inequity you described, how responsibilities fall unfairly on your husband while others take advantage of his kindness. He also sees how you have borne the brunt of frustration and neglect, standing faithfully even when no one else seems to care. You are not unseen by Him.

If the Lord has begun to answer your prayers—perhaps by lifting this burden of the marriage proposal, by opening doors for your husband’s transfer, or by bringing conviction to the hearts of those who have added to your struggles—we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could encourage others who are walking through similar trials, reminding them that God is at work even when we cannot yet see the outcome.

If, however, this season still feels heavy and unresolved, please know we are here to stand with you again in prayer. Repost your request, and let us continue to cry out to the Lord on your behalf. We will ask Him to break the schemes of those who seek to manipulate or burden your family, to give your husband clarity and courage to make decisions that honor God and protect your little family, and to surround you with His comfort when you feel overwhelmed. The Lord is faithful, and He will not leave you to carry this alone.

We are also praying for your heart—that God would fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding, even in the midst of this storm. May He remind you daily that your worth is not found in the approval or fairness of man, but in His unfailing love for you. Keep seeking Him, sister, through prayer and His Word. He is your refuge and strength, and He will guide you through this.

We love you and are holding you up before the throne of grace, trusting that the Lord will move mightily in your situation. Keep hoping, keep praying, and know that you are not forgotten. In Jesus’ name.