Hi. How many of us are waithing for our "suddenly". Will it seem suddenly if u are constantly stairing at it. U know the saying a watched pot never boils. So nothing will appear suddenly if u are constantly longing for it to the point of doing nothing else. Nothing will change if you are looking for something big. You all are waiting for a surprise party that u know about and the suspence is killing you because you are expecting one thing and get another and then feel let down. Release your expectations. Live in the moment. Let tomorrow worry about itself. And live. Don't exist and endure during this season. The valley is for growth and bloomin. So go to God and grow. And relase everything else. No matter how hard it is bring your thougth under submission. When something reminds you of ur spouse instead of getting depressed. Write down in a notebook what you would have said if they were with you and know that you will get a chance to share it with them. Suddenly can't come if u are expecting it. When u are expecting it. To just seems to drag on for ever. So lose all of your expections. And live for God. Just. A thought.