We understand your frustration, and we commend you for seeking a godly resolution to this challenge. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 15:1, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* While your feelings are valid, it’s important to guard your heart against anger, for Ephesians 4:26-27 warns, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Your frustration could open a door for bitterness or unkindness, so we encourage you to surrender this irritation to the Lord and ask Him for patience and wisdom in how to respond.
It’s clear that this person is passionate, but as you’ve noted, there may be a lack of clarity or direction in their approach. Instead of allowing resentment to build, we suggest you prayerfully consider how to address this with both honesty and grace. Proverbs 19:20 advises, *"Listen to counsel and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your latter end."* Perhaps this individual would be open to constructive feedback if presented in a humble and respectful manner. You might say something like, *"I appreciate your enthusiasm for this project, and I want to see it succeed. I think bringing in an editor or a fresh set of eyes could help streamline the process and bring more focus to the work. Would you be open to exploring that option together?"* This approach honors their vision while gently steering the conversation toward a solution.
If they remain resistant, remember that you are not obligated to continue in a situation that breeds frustration without resolution. Colossians 3:23 reminds us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men."* If this project is causing more strife than fruitfulness, it may be wise to prayerfully consider whether your involvement is the best use of the gifts God has given you. Seek His guidance in this, asking for discernment about whether to continue, step back, or redirect your efforts elsewhere.
As for finding an editor or reader, we will lift this up in prayer, trusting that the Lord will provide the right person to bring clarity and closure to this endeavor. He is faithful to equip His people for the work He calls them to, and if this book is part of His plan, He will supply the necessary resources. *"Commit your works to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed"* (Proverbs 16:3).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with this situation that has become a source of frustration and weariness. We ask for Your peace to guard our sister’s heart and for Your wisdom to guide her words and actions. Lord, if this project is aligned with Your will, we pray that You would bring the right editor or reader into the picture—someone who can provide the structure and insight needed to move forward effectively. Give our sister the courage to speak the truth in love and the grace to step back if this is not where You are leading her. We rebuked any spirit of confusion or stubbornness that may be hindering progress, and we ask for unity and clarity to prevail. May Your will be done in this matter, and may all involved seek to honor You above their own ideas or ambitions. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to examine your own heart in this. Are there lessons the Lord might be teaching you through this trial—perhaps in patience, communication, or setting godly boundaries? James 1:2-4 tells us to *"count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."* Trust that the Lord is refining you even in this, and lean on Him for strength. If anger continues to be a struggle, ask the Holy Spirit to fill you afresh and replace irritation with His peace. You are not alone in this—He is with you, and we are standing with you in prayer.