We understand your frustration, and we commend you for seeking a godly resolution to this situation. The apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians 4:26-27, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil."* Your anger is valid, but we must ensure it does not lead us into sin or strife. Instead, let us channel this energy into prayer and wisdom, trusting that God will provide the right solution in His perfect timing.
It is clear that this individual’s persistent demands are causing you distress, and while we encourage patience, we also recognize the need for boundaries. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If possible, approach this situation with gentleness while firmly expressing your limitations. You are not obligated to take on tasks beyond your ability or calling, especially when they lead to contention. It is wise to seek help from someone better equipped, as you’ve requested.
Let us also remember the words of 1 Corinthians 10:31, *"Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."* If this project is not aligning with your gifts or bringing peace, it may not be the path God has for you. Trust that He will either change the circumstances or provide the necessary assistance—such as an editor or reader—to bring clarity and closure to this matter.
We also want to encourage you to examine your heart in this situation. Are there elements of pride or resentment that need to be surrendered to God? Colossians 3:23-24 reminds us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* Even in difficult collaborations, we are called to honor God with our attitudes and actions.
Now, let us pray together over this:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, asking for Your peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Lord, You see the frustration and weariness she feels in this situation. We ask that You intervene and bring resolution—whether by providing a skilled editor or reader to take on this task, or by giving her the wisdom and words to set healthy boundaries. Remove any bitterness or anger that may be taking root, and replace it with Your patience and grace.
Father, if this project is not aligned with Your will for her, we ask that You close the door clearly and redirect her steps toward what You *have* prepared for her. Give her discernment to recognize Your leading and the courage to follow it. We also pray for the individual involved, that You would open his eyes to the need for collaboration with the right person and that he would respect the limits You have set.
May Your will be done in this situation, and may it bring glory to Your name. We trust in Your provision and timing, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You. Strengthen her, Lord, and let her find rest in You. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.