We hear your cry for deliverance and stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we have access to the Father and the only name by which we can be saved. Your testimony reveals a prolonged and intense spiritual battle, one that has sought to ensnare you in bitterness, unforgiveness, and ongoing harassment. We recognize the depth of your weariness and the frustration you feel as these attacks persist, especially during times of vulnerability. But we also see the hand of God moving in your life, softening your heart and bringing deliverance where there was once bondage.
The enemy’s tactics are clear—he seeks to isolate, discourage, and provoke you into sin, particularly unforgiveness, which gives him legal ground to continue his assault. Scripture warns us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." The people involved in this harassment are not your true enemies; they are being used as pawns by the devil, who prowls like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:8). We must not allow him to deceive us into directing our anger toward those he manipulates, even when their actions are grievous.
Your struggle with unforgiveness is understandable, but we must address it with the truth of God’s Word. Jesus commands us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Unforgiveness is a prison that keeps us bound to the very pain we seek to escape. It gives the enemy a foothold in our lives, as Paul warns in Ephesians 4:26-27, "Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil." We must break this cycle by choosing forgiveness, not because those who have harmed you deserve it, but because Christ forgave you when you did not deserve it. Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God, and it is the key to your freedom.
We also must address the relationships you mentioned that are of an "inappropriate nature." Scripture is clear that we are to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and that any relationship outside of God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman is sin. If these relationships involve fornication, adultery, or any other sexual sin, they must be severed completely. God’s Word does not allow for compromise in this area. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we are told, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" If these relationships are not aligned with God’s will, they are part of the enemy’s strategy to keep you entangled in spiritual warfare. We must cut off every ungodly tie, no matter how painful, and trust God to heal and restore what is broken.
Your prayer for clarity about whether these individuals should remain in your life is valid, but we must also examine whether your heart is truly open to God’s answer. You mentioned praying for God to remove them regardless of His will, which reveals a struggle with surrender. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." God may be allowing these trials to refine your faith, teach you dependence on Him, and prepare you for greater things. We must not grow weary in seeking His will, even when it is difficult.
The enemy’s attacks during times of physical weakness, such as illness or your menstrual cycle, are not coincidental. He seeks to exploit our vulnerabilities, but we must remember that God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). When you feel weak, that is the time to lean harder on the Lord and declare His promises over your life. We rebuke the spirit of infirmity and oppression in Jesus’ name, and we command every assignment of the enemy against you to be broken now.
We also recognize that your prayer requests have power. When you cry out to God, the enemy flees, as James 4:7 tells us, "Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." This is why the harassment stops when you post your requests—your prayers are a weapon against the darkness. We encourage you to continue standing in faith, even when the attacks seem relentless. The battle is already won in Christ, and we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us (Romans 8:37).
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we come before You on behalf of our sister who is under intense spiritual attack. Lord, we thank You for the deliverance You have already begun in her life, and we ask that You complete the work You have started. We break every chain of unforgiveness, bitterness, and resentment that the enemy has used to keep her bound. We declare that her heart is softening to Your will, and we ask that You give her the strength to forgive those who have harmed her, just as You have forgiven her.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of harassment, oppression, and infirmity that has been assigned against her. We command every demonic influence to flee in Jesus’ name, and we declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We ask that You expose every ungodly relationship in her life and give her the courage to cut off every tie that is not of You. Lord, we pray for clarity and wisdom as she seeks Your will regarding these individuals. If they are not to remain in her life, we ask that You remove them completely and heal the wounds they have caused. If You choose to restore any of these relationships, we ask that You do so in a way that brings glory to Your name and aligns with Your Word.
We pray for protection over her mind, body, and spirit, especially during times of physical weakness. Lord, strengthen her when she is weak, and remind her that Your grace is sufficient for her. We declare that the enemy’s attacks will not prevail, and that she will walk in the freedom and victory that Christ died to give her.
Father, we ask that You fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and that You surround her with Your angels to guard and protect her. We thank You for hearing our prayer, and we trust in Your faithfulness to answer. In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith, knowing that God is fighting for you. Continue to seek Him in prayer and in His Word, and do not grow weary in doing good. The enemy’s attacks may be relentless, but God’s power is greater. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith, and trust that He will lead you into complete victory. If there are areas of your life where you have not fully surrendered to God’s will, we urge you to do so now. His plans for you are for good and not for harm, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). You are not alone in this battle—we stand with you, and more importantly, God stands with you.