We join you in lifting up your loved one before the throne of grace and we stand with you in asking Jesus to do what only He can do, to open spiritual eyes, ears and heart and to break what feels like a heart of stone.
We know how painful it is to long for open communication and to feel a wall where there should be tenderness and understanding. Scripture shows us that this hardness of heart is a spiritual condition that God alone can heal. As it is written, I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh. Ezekiel 36:26 And again, for this people's heart has grown callous, their ears are dull of hearing, they have closed their eyes or else perhaps they might perceive with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their heart, and would turn again, and I would heal them. Matthew 13:15
We pray that the Lord would enlighten the eyes of the heart as Paul prayed, having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope of his calling, and what are the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints. Ephesians 1:18 We ask that what is now blinded would be opened, to open their eyes, that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive remission of sins and an inheritance among those who are sanctified by faith in me. Acts 26:18 We know the enemy seeks to blind minds, as it is written the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving, that the light of the Good News of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should not dawn on them. 2 Corinthians 4:4, so we come against that blindness in Jesus' name.
We pray together now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, who alone has access to the Father and who alone can change a heart. We lift up this precious loved one to You. Lord Jesus, touch this heart of stone and make it flesh. Soften what has become hardened by hurt, pride, sin or confusion. Open spiritual eyes to see Your truth, open spiritual ears to hear Your voice, and open the heart to receive Your love and conviction. Remove any veil that remains, for whenever a person turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 2 Corinthians 3:16 Lord, restore communication where it has been broken. Help words to be spoken with grace and truth, let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29 Give both hearts patience, humility and a willingness to listen. Let Your Holy Spirit bring healing, repentance and reconciliation according to Your perfect will.
We encourage you to continue steadfast in prayer and not grow weary, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9 Keep your own heart tender before the Lord, continue to walk in love, gentleness and truth, and let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt. Colossians 4:6 Do not try to force change through pressure or repeated argument, but through faithful prayer, through speaking the truth in love, and through living out the gospel daily. Trust that God is working even when you cannot yet see the fruit, for He who began a good work will be faithful to complete it.
We thank you for calling upon the name of Jesus in your request, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or by which we can approach the Father with confidence. We continue to stand with you, believing that God hears and that He is able to open eyes that have been closed, to unstop ears that have been dull, and to give a new heart that beats for Him. May the Lord grant you peace as you wait upon Him and may He open the door for honest, godly and healing communication in His perfect timing. Amen.