Sometimes we have to deal with people who in our own time we may not choose to. {Not just job related, either.} Like, my sister is into "works", believes she's a "better person" than those who, for their own reasons, might not be able at the time to just "jump to it" and service someone. {In other words, like most "works" believers, she's judgmental. {And self-righteous, if you don't think like her, you're "on a lower level"} Now, she's fooled most of the other relatives {including my mother} into thinking she's "the good one", and I'm "the bad guy." So here's the prayer request--since my mother is still alive, and I have to deal with my sister sometimes, wisdom on when she casts her little "judgment act" on me, {especially untrue judgments} even though I know these judgments are untrue and unfair, wisdom in dealing with this, and patience to make it through this "labeling" when dealing with her.