We are truly sorry to hear about the shame and loss you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that there is no shame in Jesus Christ. In Romans 8:1 WEB, it is written, "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus." Your identity and worth are found in Jesus Christ, not in your past experiences or failures.
However, we need to address that the loss of females could be interpreted in a way that objectifies women, which is not biblical. Women are not possessions or achievements, but individuals created in God's image, just as men are. If you are referring to lost relationships, we pray that you find healing and restoration. If you are referring to something else, please clarify.
It is also important to note that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this person to You, asking for Your healing and restoration. Remove any shame that they are feeling, and replace it with Your love and acceptance. If there has been any objectification of women, convict their heart and help them to see others as You see them. If they do not know Jesus Christ, we pray that they would come to know Him as their Lord and Savior. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and to treat others with the love and respect that Jesus Christ modeled. If you need further guidance or have any other requests, please feel free to share.