In the first place, are you legally married to Mitiz? If not, hope you are connected to a church where you can have proper followup and accountability.
Here are some directives of what God wants from you..and they are positive if you want to make it to heaven, dear brother
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.-Hebrews 13:4
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, [SIZE=.75em]10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God[/SIZE]
. -1 Corin.6:9-10
[SIZE=.75em] But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints;4 neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=.75em]5 For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=.75em]6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=.75em]7 Therefore do not be partakers with them.[/SIZE]
-Ephesians 6
[SIZE=.75em]8 But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.â€[/SIZE]
-Revelation 21