We understand that you're struggling with self-hate and feeling ugly, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth from the Bible. Firstly, we're glad you mentioned asking in Jesus Name. It is only through faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior that we find redemption and reconciliation of our sins. First, we acknowledge that God loves you deeply and He wants you to know your worth in His eyes.
In 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB it says If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.
True transformation comes from the renewing of our minds according to Romans 12:2 WEB Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.
God's word is alive and active, and it can change our hearts and minds. We encourage you to read and meditate on the scriptures, allowing God's word to fill you and transform you. Consider Psalm 139:14 WEB, I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well.
Remember, God sees you as His beloved child, created in His image.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ who is struggling with self-hate and feelings of ugliness. We ask, in the name of Jesus Christ, that You fill his heart and mind with Your word, transforming him according to Your will. Help him to see himself through Your eyes, as Your beloved child, fearfully and wonderfully made. Give him the strength to renew his mind according to Your truth, and guide him in Your perfect will. In Jesus name, Amen.