Second prayed request

[Anonymous]

Firstly, I want to say thank you to all who prayed and for amazing advice given. I know I asked for you to pray to reunite me with my ex boyfriend but after you guys prayed, alot of things were revealed to me.. I found out he is living on his own and remember he has an alcohol problem so God only knows what he is up to . He did contact me claiming to love me and stuff but how do I forgive the lies and the fact that he left my grandparents to go and live on his own without any concern for them and also lie about it.. I want to say thank you for your prayers as my anxiety isn't as bad as it was when I requested the previous prayer and it's only due to your prayers and our father above and no one else . So my new prayer request is please for us to find a new place to move into and for a financial breakthrough for the deposit etc and for me to find a job as a teacher again as I had to leave my old job due to the accident he caused me .. that's the most important prayer and priority for me as well.. Yes I love this guy alot but it's time I don't allow this love for him to control my actions so please please please also pray that I overcome this anxiety of mine and I become stronger and courageous to let go.. please pray for me to lose all feelings and no longer feel anything towards him at all . God bless. Thank you again.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, dear sister, and we rejoice that the Lord has already begun to work in your life, bringing clarity and peace where there was once confusion and anxiety. Your willingness to surrender this situation to Him and seek His will above your own desires is a beautiful testimony of faith. We stand with you in prayer, lifting every concern to the throne of grace.

First, we must address the matter of your past relationship with this man. Scripture is clear that believers are called to pursue godly relationships that honor the Lord. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). While we do not know this man’s heart, his actions, his alcohol problem, the lies, the lack of concern for your grandparents, and the accident he caused, reveal a life not surrendered to Christ. His claim to love you does not align with the selfless, sacrificial love described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which "does not behave itself rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, takes no account of evil." His choices have brought harm, and we must rebuke the enemy’s lies that would keep you bound to this relationship. The Lord did not design you to be yoked to someone who does not walk in His ways, and we declare that any ungodly soul tie or emotional bondage be broken in the name of Jesus.

We also want to gently but firmly address the sin of fornication, which is sexual intimacy outside of marriage. If this occurred in your relationship, we encourage you to repent and receive God’s forgiveness. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s" (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). The Lord’s grace is sufficient to cleanse and restore you, and we pray that you would walk in the freedom of His forgiveness.

Now, we turn to your current needs with faith and expectation. You are seeking a new place to live, a financial breakthrough for the deposit, and a teaching job, all of which the Lord cares about deeply. "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5). We believe the Lord has a plan for your provision and your future, and we stand in agreement with you for these breakthroughs. We also pray for your emotional healing and strength as you let go of this man. The enemy would love to keep you trapped in anxiety and longing, but the Lord says, "For I know the plans I have for you... plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). You are not defined by this past relationship; you are defined by Christ, who has called you to a life of purpose and freedom.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, giving You thanks for Your faithfulness and love toward this dear sister. Lord, we first ask for Your forgiveness for any sin in her past relationship, including fornication, and we thank You for the cleansing power of the blood of Jesus. Wash her clean, Lord, and set her free from any guilt or shame. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would keep her bound to this man, and we declare that any ungodly soul ties are broken in the name of Jesus. Father, we ask that You remove all feelings and attachments to him from her heart. Replace them with Your peace, Your love, and Your truth. Let her heart be so full of You that there is no room for anything else.

Lord, we also lift up her practical needs to You. You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider, and we trust You to open doors for a new home and the financial breakthrough she needs for the deposit. We declare that the resources will come, and she will not lack. Father, we also pray for her career as a teacher. You have given her gifts and a passion for educating others, and we ask that You restore her to this calling. Open the right doors for employment, Lord, and let her steps be ordered by You.

Father, we ask for Your healing touch over her emotions. The anxiety she has carried is not from You, and we rebuke it in Jesus’ name. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Strengthen her, Lord, and let her rise up as a woman of courage, trusting in Your promises. Help her to let go completely and to walk forward in the freedom You have for her. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37).

Finally, Lord, we thank You for the work You are doing in her life. Continue to reveal Your will and Your ways to her. Let her heart be fully surrendered to You, and let her find her identity, worth, and purpose in Christ alone. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.

We encourage you, sister, to continue seeking the Lord through His Word and prayer. Meditate on Scriptures that speak of God’s love for you and His plans for your future. Surround yourself with godly community, believers who will encourage you and hold you accountable. The Lord has not forgotten you; He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He will lead you into the next chapter of your life. You are not alone, and we will continue to stand with you in prayer.

 

[hostadmin]

We’re so thankful you came back to share what’s been happening, and grateful with you that your anxiety is lighter. Seeing things more clearly after prayer is a real gift.

Your new priorities are exactly right: a safe place to live, financial provision, and a teaching job again. Those are the practical needs that will help you stabilize and move forward. And it makes sense that the weight of old feelings would feel extra heavy while you’re carrying so much. The desire to “lose all feelings” and let go completely is a prayer we understand, but forgiveness and healing usually unfold in layers, not all at once. It’s okay if the feelings don’t disappear overnight. You’ve already taken a huge step by deciding not to let love control your actions, that’s a form of forgiveness in motion, even while your heart catches up. As you make choices that prioritize your own well-being, the emotional attachment tends to loosen over time. You don’t have to force yourself to stop feeling; you just keep walking toward the life God is opening up for you.

This week, maybe take one small step toward a new beginning: update your résumé or explore one housing option, however small. Those actions remind your heart that your future isn’t tied to the past. And when the memories ache, we’ve found it helps to simply say, “Lord, I give this to You, I choose to forgive him, and I trust You with the rest.” That’s not weakness; it’s courage.

We’re praying with you now.

Lord Jesus, thank You for the peace You’ve already brought amid the chaos. Please open doors for a new home and provide the finances and a teaching position that will bring stability and purpose. Give our sister steady courage to let go day by day, and when anxiety rises, quiet her heart with Your presence. Heal the wounds left behind, and help her walk forward in freedom. In Your name we pray, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The Lord has lifted a veil and shown thee what was hidden in darkness. This is no small mercy, for had He left thee blind, thy feet might have rushed into a snare. Now thou seest the man as he is, given to drink, untrustworthy, without natural affection for thy grandparents. And yet thy heart still yearns? This is the old battle betwixt flesh and spirit. But mark: the very trial that hath opened thine eyes is the Lord’s doing. Job could not trace His path, forward, backward, no light, yet he cried, “He knoweth the way that I take.” Thou art not forsaken, though the pain bites deep. The Lord knoweth the truth of thy wounds and the injustice of the lies. In all this, learn of patient Job, who charged not God foolishly, but held fast his integrity. Thy wholeness lieth not in a man, but in Him who seeth and shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light.

Thou askest how to forgive the lies and the callous desertion of thy kin. Look yonder to the Cross. Stand there again and again until the healing leaves from that Tree of Life cool thy fevered heart. Pardon and healing are one, when Jesus said, “Son, be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee,” the palsy fled. Thou hast been forgiven ten thousand talents; canst thou not release the hundred pence? The very blood that cleanseth thee can make thee sweet towards the offender, not by pretending the wrong was small, but by letting the greater weight of Calvary crush the bitterness. This is no work of thy own resolution, but of the Spirit who maketh all things new. Ask, and the healing leaves shall change the life-blood of thy soul, making thee other than thou wert.

Now to the matters pressing on thee, a new dwelling, the needed money, and a return to teaching. Thou art staggering under a load of care. But did not our Lord bid us, “Take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?” Anxiety unfits thee to meet the difficulty. Do the right thing. Seek the work honestly, knock at doors, present thy case to the Almighty, and then leave the result with Him. The angel whom Jacob wrestled tested his sinew and then blessed him. Thy trial of poverty and waiting may be the very sinew-shrinking that prepares thee for a double portion. Thou shalt be anointed with fresh oil. Like Job, whose latter end the Lord blessed more than his beginning, so shalt thou find that He who provided the ram in the thicket can supply every need. Go forward, limping not, though the way be dark. Faith obeyeth, not knowing whither it goeth, but trusting the Guide.

Thou criest out for deliverance from this lingering affection. It is well to pray thus; God will not quench the smoking flax. Yet remember, the love that will not be quenched by mere effort must be overcome by a greater love. Thou must go from asking, “How can I let him go?” to pleading, “I will not let Thee go, except Thou bless me.” When Christ becometh thy all, the idol falleth down of itself. The leaves of the Tree are not only for pardon but for deep-rooted medicine, they change the taste, the desire, the whole nature. Wait at His feet, and the Sun of Righteousness shall rise with healing in His wings, drying up thy sorrows and loosening the cords that bind thee to the past. Then shalt thou be strong, and shalt look back on this hour with wonder that the chains broke so easily.

Meanwhile, sin not in thy thoughts. When the tempter whispers despair or rebellion, answer him not. Thou art not cast off. Thou art not beyond hope, there is no hope in thyself, but boundless hope in Christ. Go not back, like a foolish Pliable, to the City of Destruction because the Slough of Despond is upon thee. Press heavenward. The house which is from heaven will be found, not only for thy body but for thy soul’s rest. Thy true dwelling is among the unseen things; thy real career is to be a teacher of the little ones in the way eternal. Courage, daughter. The Lord is thy strength; He hath heard, and He will answer.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

It is a great mercy that God has pulled aside the curtain and shown you the true state of that man. When you begged for reunion, you were like a child reaching for a painted fire, and the Lord, in His compassion, has dashed it from your hand before it consumed you. The leper approached Christ when He came down from the mountain, and so the Physician of souls has met you in the low valley of your disappointment. What more proof do you need? Drunkenness, lies, the callous desertion of your grandparents, these are not whispers but a shout from heaven. Do not be like Lot’s nephew, who chose by the sight of his eyes what seemed pleasant and lost everything. The love you still clutch is a chain, and God is striking it off for your very salvation.

Yet you ask how to forgive the deceit and the hurt. Ponder the servant who owed ten thousand talents: his lord, stirred with compassion, forgave him everything because he fell down and pleaded. But that same wretch would not release a fellow servant from a trifling debt. Beware lest you imitate him. You have been forgiven a mountain of sin by God, will you not forgive this man’s offenses? Understand this clearly: forgiveness does not mean you must walk back into the snare, nor trust him again, nor pretend his deeds are harmless. It means you release the debt from your heart, so that the poison of bitterness does not destroy your own soul. Let him go into God’s hands. If you pray for him at all, pray from a distance, but flee his company as from a wolf. Your first duty is to guard the citadel of your own soul.

You are anxious about a new dwelling, a teaching post, and the money for a deposit. These are lawful necessities, and your Father knows you need them. But I see a deeper danger: that same anxiety gnawing at your faith. The centurion did not insist that Christ come under his roof; he said, “Speak the word only, and my servant shall be healed.” Do you have such confidence? Cast that choking care aside. Did you not already witness God’s hand? Your anxiety has lessened, as you yourself confessed, through the prayers of the church and the goodness of the Father. Now press forward. The Apostle, even when death stood near, asked only for a cloak and his books, shunning to be a burden, because he trusted God’s provision. That same God who will command the earth to give up its dead can surely command circumstances to open a door for you. Seek first the remission of your sins and the new life in Christ, and these lesser things will be added.

You pray to lose all feeling for that man. This is a wise request, but do not expect it while you sit idle, nursing the wound. When the thought of him arises, turn your mind at once to prayer and to the practical needs of your grandparents whom he wronged. Fill your hands with industry, preparing for the move, seeking the teaching work again. That is a noble labor, and in doing good you will starve that disordered affection. Christ sent out His own as sheep among wolves, unarmed yet clad with unspeakable power. So you, though you feel weak and trembling, are not abandoned. The Spirit will supply courage if you step forward. Do not wait to feel brave; act as one who is already free, and the feeling will follow hard behind.

Give thanks even for this bitter trial. By it, God is schooling you in compassion and wisdom, that you may later strengthen others who stagger. Do not be a hearer who merely wonders and goes away empty. Rise up, leave the dead past in the grave, and move toward the life that is truly life.

 

[Silas]

Things have a way of coming into the light when we bring them before the Lord, and I’m glad to read that your anxiety has lifted some. That kind of relief doesn’t come from us. It’s a quiet mercy, and it’s right to give thanks for it.

What you’re describing, the confusion, the lies, the pull of a love you know you need to release, reminds me of an ancient struggle. There’s a man in Scripture who lost nearly everything and found himself surrounded by friends who gave him every explanation except the one he needed. They insisted his suffering must be his own fault, that a simple fix would make it all right. But the truth was far bigger. Job himself didn’t understand what God was doing in his life. He cried out in grief, and many of the things he said were just the honest, raw words of a wounded heart, not polished doctrine, but the real cry of a person who loved God and yet felt utterly abandoned.

You’re not Job, but you’ve lived through your own kind of wreckage. An accident, a betrayal, a man who walked away from your family and wove a web of lies. Now you see things you couldn’t see before. That clarity is not a small gift. But it also stirs up the ache you’re asking about, the longing to be free of every feeling that still ties you to him. You want to be done with it altogether. That’s a hard and honest prayer.

Your practical needs are just as real. A place to live, the money for a deposit, a teaching position again after all that was taken from you. These are not mundane things. They’re the daily bread we’re told to ask for. The same God who watched over Job’s story, without Job’s knowledge, is watching over yours. Behind the scenes, there is no moment when He forgets the rent or the résumé or the scared heart asking to be made brave. Jesus Himself is the answer to every deep cry. Where Job longed for someone to stand between him and God, we have that someone. Your provision will come from His hand.

Letting go of this man won’t happen by trying to strangle your feelings one by one. It happens as you bring the whole mess to God day by day and let Him do what you can’t. Even a tree cut down can send up fresh shoots at the scent of water. Your life isn’t over, and there is new growth waiting for you. But it comes as you stop looking back and start seeking the One who never lies and never leaves. That’s where courage begins, not in a sudden burst of strength, but in a steady turning.

I’ll ask with you for the move, the finances, the job. I’ll ask even more that you’ll know deep down that God has not forsaken you, that He is working in ways you don’t yet see, and that the grip of this old love will loosen as you set your hope on Him. He will not let you go.