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[Anonymous]

LIFE IN I SPEAK LIFE CLAIM CONTROL CLAIM DECREE DECLARE DEMAND INTO EXISTENCE FOLD GREATLY ITS NOT THAT DEEP I HAVE GOT MARRIED IN ANOTHER COUNTRY BEFORE I THINK NOW GOD WAS TELLING ME TO LET GO OF USA MEN I JUST BARELY SEEN THE LIGHT IS ALL..I SPEAK THE WORLD WILL HAVE THEIR BREAKTHROUGHS ACCORDING TO HOW IT GOES GREATLY..THIS THE GOD OF HEAVEN WE'RE TALKING ABOUT HERE IM THE ONE IN ALL OF THE WORLD THAT SHOULD MATTER GREATLY I EARNED MY POSITION I WORKED MY BUTT OFF MY ENTIRE LIFESPAN..NOW THE GUYS THAT DIDN'T WANT A WIFE OF THE LORD SHOULDN’T EVER GET ME NOW OR DECIDED TO PUT ME DEAD IN THE HEAD PUT SOMEONE IN MY CROWN LITERALLY CHOP ME INTO PIECES THAT'S NOT NORMAL THAT'S A PSYCHOPATH MOVE HELL TO THE NO…NOW LIKE I SAID I THINK SOMEONE FROM ENGLAND OR NEW ZEALAND POSSIBLY AUSTRALIA SOMEWHERE I CAN BE HAPPY ACCEPTED AS ME SEE MY OWN FAMILY HAVE A GREAT LIFE IN SECRET THAT I LOVE. NOW IF AN AMERICAN MAN CAN MAKE IT GREAT IF NOT LIKE I SAID ITS NOT THAT DEEP ANYMORE IM DONE BEING BY MYSELF THIS ISN'T IN THE LORD’S WILL FOR ME LIKE AT ALL GREATLY. LIFE IN ALL SATAN DEMONS CREATURES SCOUTS SPYS THAT HAVE MADE IT ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO GET BLESSED IN MY OWN COUNTRY LET THEM BE PUT TO SHAME TODAY THAT THEY HURT ME MY OWN COUNTRY THAT I LOVE I DIDN'T EVEN GET TO EVER SUCCEED IN ONE CAREER YET NOT ONE WEDDING DRESS NOT ONE HOME BUILT STILL DON'T EVEN HAVE A VEHICLE IT IS OK THOUGH IM NOT UPSET WHEN DOORS DON'T OPEN FOR A REASON. OR IF THERE TO HARD TO OPEN THEN I NEED TO GO A DIFFERENT WAY. NOW I DO BELIEVE I FINALLY GOT MY CAREER GOING YAYZZZZZZ SO THAT CAN GO AS A BLESSING FOR THE WORLD IN HEARTS DESIRES DREAMS COME TRUE..THE HOUSE HOME OHHHHHHHHHHHH AND THE DOG THE HUSBAND OHHHHHHHHHHH I DON'T HAVE MY NORMAL COMMUNICATION EVEN BACK YET IT IS MAKING ME SO SAD I DON'T CRY MYSELF TO SLEEP ANYMORE NOR DO I WANT THE WORLD SAD JUST BECAUSE I COULDN'T SUCCEED DOESN'T MEAN THE WORLD IM JUST TARGETED TO FAIL DON'T BE HAPPY HAS TO COME OFF MAYBE I NEED TO THINK OUT OF THE BOX NOT EVERYBODY HAS TO DO THAT IM THE ONE IT WILL BREAKTHRU FOR EVERYONE ELSE GREATLY THAT'S IT THAT'S ALL WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS..LET GOD BLESS THE NATIONS LET'S SEE WHAT GOD ALMIGHTY CAN DO GREATLY NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD NOTHING WOOOOHOOOO

 

[Articles]

We hear your pain, frustration, and deep longing for God’s best in your life, marriage, a home, stability, and the joy of being cherished as the woman of God you are. Your words carry the weight of disappointment, but also a flicker of hope that God is leading you toward something new. We stand with you in prayer, declaring that the Lord sees your tears, hears your cries, and has not forgotten you. The enemy may have tried to isolate and discourage you, but we rebuke those spirits of delay, confusion, and oppression in Jesus’ name. You are not forgotten, and your breakthrough is coming.

First, we must address the way you’ve framed some of your declarations. Scripture warns us in James 4:13-15 (WEB), "Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow let’s go into this city, and spend a year there, trade, and make a profit,' whereas you don’t know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor that appears for a little time, and then vanishes away. For you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.'"

You are right to speak life and claim God’s promises, but we must always submit our plans to His will. Even our desires for marriage, career, and provision must be surrendered to Him. The Bible says in Proverbs 19:21 (WEB), "There are many plans in a man’s heart, but Yahweh’s counsel will prevail." Let us pray that your heart aligns with His perfect timing and purpose.

We also notice the pain of feeling rejected by men who did not value you as a wife of the Lord. This is a deep wound, and we grieve with you. But we must rebuke the spirit of bitterness that can take root in such hurt. Hebrews 12:15 (WEB) warns, "Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." Forgiveness is not for them, it is for your freedom. We pray that God heals your heart and removes any residue of resentment, replacing it with His peace.

Now, regarding marriage: You are right that God’s design is for a man and woman to come together in holy matrimony, as Genesis 2:24 (WEB) declares, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall be one flesh." But we must also caution against placing your hope in a specific nation or type of man rather than in God Himself. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Your focus must remain on Him, not on where the "right" man might come from. If God calls you to marry, He will bring the right godly man, whether from America, England, New Zealand, or anywhere else, into your life at the perfect time.

We also want to gently address the mention of your previous marriage. If this was not a union blessed by God (perhaps due to unbiblical circumstances or not being recognized in His eyes), we encourage you to seek wisdom and possibly counsel to ensure your future marriage aligns with His will. 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" Marriage is a covenant before God, and it must be entered into with reverence and obedience to His Word.

As for your career and provision, we rejoice that God is opening doors! Philippians 4:19 (WEB) assures us, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." But we must also guard against frustration when things don’t happen on our timeline. Psalm 27:14 (WEB) says, "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." Your trust in Him is not in vain.

Lastly, we must address the spiritual warfare you’ve faced. The enemy has indeed tried to steal your joy, your peace, and your purpose. But 1 John 4:4 (WEB) declares, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world." We stand with you in prayer, breaking every chain of delay, confusion, and oppression in Jesus’ name. The blood of Jesus has already secured your victory.

Let us pray for you now:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her up to You in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord, You see her heart, her longing for marriage, for a home, for stability, and for Your best. We ask that You heal every wound of rejection, disappointment, and loneliness. Replace her sorrow with Your joy, her frustration with Your peace, and her uncertainty with Your perfect plan.

Father, we rebuke every spirit of delay, confusion, and oppression that has tried to hinder her life. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We break every chain of bitterness, unforgiveness, and discouragement in Jesus’ name. Lord, restore her hope and renew her strength.

We pray for her future marriage, that You would bring a godly man into her life, one who loves You above all else and cherishes her as Your daughter. Prepare her heart to be a wife who honors You, and prepare her husband to be a man after Your own heart. If there are any past unions that need Your healing or closure, we ask that You bring clarity and restoration where needed.

Father, we thank You for the doors You are opening in her career. Bless her work, Lord, and let it be a testimony of Your faithfulness. Provide for every need, her home, her transportation, and all that she requires to live abundantly. Let her see Your hand moving in her life in ways she never imagined.

Above all, Lord, draw her closer to You. Let her delight in You, knowing that You will give her the desires of her heart (Psalm 37:4). May she find her identity, security, and purpose in You alone. We declare that her breakthrough is coming, not just for her, but as a testimony to the nations of Your goodness and power.

We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus, the name above every name, the One who has conquered sin, death, and every work of the enemy. Amen."

Sister, you are not alone. The Lord is with you, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, trust His timing, and walk in the victory that is already yours through Christ. Your story is not over, it is just beginning.

 

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We hear the weariness in your words, years of feeling stuck, alone, and as though something has been actively working against you. That kind of long disappointment can carve a deep ache, especially when it touches your deepest hopes for marriage, a home, and meaningful work. It’s okay to feel worn out. You’re not wrong for wanting a full life.

You mentioned that you finally see some movement in your career, and we’re genuinely glad. That’s real encouragement after so much waiting. We pray this becomes a season of steady, tangible blessing.

The loneliness you describe is heavy. Many of God’s people have walked through long stretches of solitude, not as rejection but as preparation, even when it hurts. While we can’t promise exactly how or when God will bring a spouse, we trust He sees your desire and isn’t holding out on you. In the meantime, one practical help can be finding a solid, loving local church where you’re known and can serve. Not a replacement for a husband, but a refuge while you wait. Flesh-and-blood fellowship often steadies the heart more than we expect.

We also want to pray against any spiritual opposition you’re sensing. God’s covering over you is real, and no scheme of the enemy can outlast His purpose. So we ask together:

Father, we lift up our friend. You see the years of struggle, the loneliness, the hopes deferred. Bring tangible breakthrough, in career, in home, in healthy relationships. Guide her to the people and places where she can flourish as the woman You made her. Shield her from any spiritual attack that has sought to discourage and isolate her. Give her fresh hope and the comfort of Your nearness tonight. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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