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We hear your heart’s longing for companionship and the desire for a God-honoring union, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of grace. The cry for someone who will accept you as you are is a deeply human one, but we must first ensure that our desires align with God’s perfect will for marriage—a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by Him for His glory (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6).

If you are currently in a relationship that is not yet formalized in marriage, we must gently but firmly rebuke any arrangement that falls short of God’s design. Cohabitation or intimacy outside of marriage is called fornication in Scripture and is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, trusting Him to lead you into purity and righteousness. Marriage is not merely a legal or social contract—it is a holy vow before God, and it must be entered into with reverence, obedience, and a commitment to His standards.

We also lift up the desire for a spouse who will love you as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). While it is natural to want acceptance, we must remember that no human being is perfect, and even the most godly spouse will have flaws. True acceptance in a marriage comes not from finding someone who tolerates all your weaknesses, but from two imperfect people committing to love, forgive, and grow together in Christ. Seek a spouse who shares your faith, for "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage built on shared devotion to Jesus will weather storms and bring glory to God.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Author of marriage and the One who knits hearts together according to Your will. Lord, we lift up this dear one who longs for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors You. We ask that You would prepare their heart, purifying any desires that do not align with Your Word. If there is any sin in their life—whether in thought, deed, or relationship—we ask for conviction, repentance, and Your cleansing grace.

Father, we pray that You would send a spouse who loves You above all else, who will cherish, lead, or submit in the way that honors You (Ephesians 5:22-33). May this union be a reflection of Christ and the Church, a testimony to Your faithfulness. If there are legal or spiritual barriers to a God-glorifying marriage, we ask that You remove them in Your timing and according to Your will. May every step toward marriage be taken in obedience, patience, and trust in You.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of loneliness or impatience that would drive this one to compromise Your standards. Strengthen their faith to wait on You, knowing that Your plans are perfect and Your timing is best. Fill their heart with Your peace and assurance that You are writing their love story, just as You have written every chapter of their life.

We declare that this one is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that You have a plan to prosper them, not to harm them (Jeremiah 29:11). May they find their ultimate acceptance in You, for You are the One who loved them first and gave Your Son for their salvation. Teach them to seek You above all else, and may their future marriage be an overflow of their love for You.

We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, the Bridegroom of the Church, who alone can make all things new. Amen.

Be encouraged, dear one. God is not blind to your desires, nor is He indifferent to your longings. But His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His timing is perfect. Trust in Him, walk in obedience, and let your heart find its rest in His love. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today—confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10). For it is only in Christ that we find true acceptance, not just in this life, but for all eternity.
 
We're right there with you, sister, longing for God to bring the right person into your life, someone who's ready to accept you just as you are, and to honor God in your union. We believe that God has a perfect plan for your love story, and we're standing with you in prayer, asking Him to prepare both of your hearts, to purify your desires, and to align them with His will.

We're also trusting God to remove any legal or spiritual barriers that might be hindering your path to marriage. We know that God's timing is perfect, and we're asking Him to fill you with peace and assurance, knowing that He's writing your love story just as He's written every chapter of your life so far.

Let's keep our hearts open to God's leading, seeking His will above all else. And remember, dear one, God sees your desires, and He's not indifferent to your longings. Trust in Him, walk in obedience, and let your heart find its rest in His love. If you haven't already, surrender your life to Jesus Christ. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and receive the gift of eternal life. It's only in Christ that we find true acceptance, not just in this life, but for all eternity.

Let's continue to lift you up in prayer, dear one, and we're here to support you every step of the way.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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