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We commend you for seeking God’s will in this matter, as it is wise to approach such decisions with prayer and discernment. The desire to honor God in relationships is a reflection of a heart that seeks His kingdom first, and we are encouraged by your willingness to surrender this to Him. As Scripture reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). This is not a decision to rush into lightly, for relationships—especially those leading toward marriage—are meant to glorify God and reflect Christ’s love for His Church.
It is good that you recognize the weight of this step. Courtship is not merely about companionship but about preparing for a lifelong covenant before God, one that requires maturity, readiness, and a shared faith in Christ. If you do not feel ready, it is wise to prayerfully consider why. Are there areas of your walk with God that need strengthening? Are there personal goals, spiritual growth, or ministry work He is calling you to focus on first? The apostle Paul encourages believers to *"walk worthily of the Lord, to please him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God"* (Colossians 1:10, WEB). Sometimes, God calls us to seasons of preparation before He opens doors to new relationships.
At the same time, we must be cautious not to let fear or hesitation close our hearts to God’s leading. If this opportunity is from Him, He will make it clear in His timing. Pray for wisdom, as James instructs: *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). Ask the Lord to reveal His heart in this matter—whether He is calling you to step forward in faith or to wait patiently for His perfect timing.
We also encourage you to examine the motives behind this potential introduction. Is the person being considered a believer who is actively walking with Christ? Scripture is clear that believers should not be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for a marriage built on shared faith is the foundation for a godly home. If this person is a brother or sister in Christ, pray for discernment about their character, their commitment to the Lord, and whether they would be someone who could lead or support you spiritually in marriage.
Lastly, we must emphasize that dating, if pursued, should be done with the intent of seeking a spouse—not for casual companionship or emotional fulfillment. The world’s view of dating often lacks commitment and purity, but as followers of Christ, we are called to honor God in all things, including our relationships. Flee from any temptation to compromise morally, for *"flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before You, asking for Your clear direction and wisdom in this matter. Lord, You know the depths of their heart—whether they are ready for this step or if You are calling them to a season of preparation. We pray that You would speak to them in a way they cannot mistake, whether through Your Word, the counsel of godly believers, or the peace of Your Spirit. Guard their heart from fear, from haste, and from the pressures of the world. If this opportunity is from You, prepare them for it. If it is not, give them the strength to wait patiently for Your perfect will.
We ask that You surround them with godly counsel, that those who seek to introduce them to this person would do so with pure motives and in alignment with Your purposes. May any potential relationship be rooted in Christ, built on faith, and directed toward Your glory. Protect them from distraction, from emotional entanglements that are not of You, and from any path that would lead them away from Your best.
Most of all, Father, we pray that their desire would be for You above all else. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your timing (Matthew 6:33). Give them a heart that is fully surrendered to You, whether in singleness or in marriage.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or worldly influence that would seek to cloud their judgment. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we declare that Your will shall prevail in their life, and that every decision will be made in obedience to You.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
It is good that you recognize the weight of this step. Courtship is not merely about companionship but about preparing for a lifelong covenant before God, one that requires maturity, readiness, and a shared faith in Christ. If you do not feel ready, it is wise to prayerfully consider why. Are there areas of your walk with God that need strengthening? Are there personal goals, spiritual growth, or ministry work He is calling you to focus on first? The apostle Paul encourages believers to *"walk worthily of the Lord, to please him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God"* (Colossians 1:10, WEB). Sometimes, God calls us to seasons of preparation before He opens doors to new relationships.
At the same time, we must be cautious not to let fear or hesitation close our hearts to God’s leading. If this opportunity is from Him, He will make it clear in His timing. Pray for wisdom, as James instructs: *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). Ask the Lord to reveal His heart in this matter—whether He is calling you to step forward in faith or to wait patiently for His perfect timing.
We also encourage you to examine the motives behind this potential introduction. Is the person being considered a believer who is actively walking with Christ? Scripture is clear that believers should not be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for a marriage built on shared faith is the foundation for a godly home. If this person is a brother or sister in Christ, pray for discernment about their character, their commitment to the Lord, and whether they would be someone who could lead or support you spiritually in marriage.
Lastly, we must emphasize that dating, if pursued, should be done with the intent of seeking a spouse—not for casual companionship or emotional fulfillment. The world’s view of dating often lacks commitment and purity, but as followers of Christ, we are called to honor God in all things, including our relationships. Flee from any temptation to compromise morally, for *"flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before You, asking for Your clear direction and wisdom in this matter. Lord, You know the depths of their heart—whether they are ready for this step or if You are calling them to a season of preparation. We pray that You would speak to them in a way they cannot mistake, whether through Your Word, the counsel of godly believers, or the peace of Your Spirit. Guard their heart from fear, from haste, and from the pressures of the world. If this opportunity is from You, prepare them for it. If it is not, give them the strength to wait patiently for Your perfect will.
We ask that You surround them with godly counsel, that those who seek to introduce them to this person would do so with pure motives and in alignment with Your purposes. May any potential relationship be rooted in Christ, built on faith, and directed toward Your glory. Protect them from distraction, from emotional entanglements that are not of You, and from any path that would lead them away from Your best.
Most of all, Father, we pray that their desire would be for You above all else. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your timing (Matthew 6:33). Give them a heart that is fully surrendered to You, whether in singleness or in marriage.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or worldly influence that would seek to cloud their judgment. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we declare that Your will shall prevail in their life, and that every decision will be made in obedience to You.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
We're right there with you, praying for wisdom and clarity in this situation. It's great to see your heart's desire to honor God in this area of your life. We believe that God will make His will known to you, just as He promises in His Word.
We're reminded of the story of Esther in the Bible. She was faced with a big decision, and she sought the counsel of her people and fasted before making her choice. She said, "If I perish, I perish" (Esther 4:16), showing her willingness to trust God with the outcome. Let's learn from her example and trust God with the result, whatever it may be.
We also want to encourage you to seek godly counsel from trusted friends, mentors, or your pastor. They can provide valuable insights and perspectives that might help you see things more clearly. Remember, we're all in this together, and God often speaks to us through the body of Christ.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister/brother in prayer. We ask that You would give them clarity and wisdom as they consider this potential relationship. Help them to trust in You with all their heart, and in all their ways, acknowledge You, so that You would make their paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Lord, we pray that You would reveal Your heart to them in this matter. If this opportunity is from You, prepare their hearts and minds. If it's not, give them the strength to wait patiently for Your perfect timing. We ask that You would surround them with godly counsel and protect them from any distractions or entanglements that are not of You.
Most importantly, we pray that they would seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your timing (Matthew 6:33).
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We're reminded of the story of Esther in the Bible. She was faced with a big decision, and she sought the counsel of her people and fasted before making her choice. She said, "If I perish, I perish" (Esther 4:16), showing her willingness to trust God with the outcome. Let's learn from her example and trust God with the result, whatever it may be.
We also want to encourage you to seek godly counsel from trusted friends, mentors, or your pastor. They can provide valuable insights and perspectives that might help you see things more clearly. Remember, we're all in this together, and God often speaks to us through the body of Christ.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister/brother in prayer. We ask that You would give them clarity and wisdom as they consider this potential relationship. Help them to trust in You with all their heart, and in all their ways, acknowledge You, so that You would make their paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Lord, we pray that You would reveal Your heart to them in this matter. If this opportunity is from You, prepare their hearts and minds. If it's not, give them the strength to wait patiently for Your perfect timing. We ask that You would surround them with godly counsel and protect them from any distractions or entanglements that are not of You.
Most importantly, we pray that they would seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your timing (Matthew 6:33).
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting this situation before the Lord with you. Your heart of surrender and willingness to seek God’s perfect timing in this area is such a beautiful testimony of trust in His plan. We’ve been praying that the Lord would give you clarity, peace, and discernment as you wait on Him—whether that means stepping forward in faith or finding contentment in this season of preparation.
If God has already begun to move in this area—perhaps by confirming His will, granting you peace about waiting, or opening (or closing) a door—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could encourage others who are also seeking the Lord’s guidance in relationships.
If you’re still waiting for direction or feeling uncertain, we’d be honored to continue praying with you. Sometimes the Lord works in ways we don’t immediately see, and we want to stand with you until His purpose becomes clear. Feel free to post an update, and we’ll keep bringing this before the throne of grace, trusting that He who began this good work in you will carry it through to completion.
May the Lord bless you richly as you seek Him first, knowing that His timing is perfect and His plans for you are good. We’re praying that you’ll experience His peace that surpasses all understanding as you rest in His love.
In Jesus Name.
If God has already begun to move in this area—perhaps by confirming His will, granting you peace about waiting, or opening (or closing) a door—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could encourage others who are also seeking the Lord’s guidance in relationships.
If you’re still waiting for direction or feeling uncertain, we’d be honored to continue praying with you. Sometimes the Lord works in ways we don’t immediately see, and we want to stand with you until His purpose becomes clear. Feel free to post an update, and we’ll keep bringing this before the throne of grace, trusting that He who began this good work in you will carry it through to completion.
May the Lord bless you richly as you seek Him first, knowing that His timing is perfect and His plans for you are good. We’re praying that you’ll experience His peace that surpasses all understanding as you rest in His love.
In Jesus Name.
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