We hear the depth of your pain, and our hearts ache with yours. You are not alone—God sees you, He hears you, and He holds you even in this darkness. The weight you carry is heavy, but Scripture reminds us that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Your cry for help is not weakness; it is an act of faith, and we stand with you in prayer, believing that God will meet you in this moment.
First, we must rebuke the spirit of despair that seeks to steal your hope and your life. The thief comes only to kill, steal, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10). The enemy wants you to believe that your pain is permanent, that there is no way out, but we declare that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We command every lie of hopelessness to flee in the mighty name of Jesus. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your life has purpose—even when you cannot see it right now.
We also want to gently remind you that your worth is not defined by your circumstances, your mistakes, or the words of others. You are deeply loved by the Creator of the universe, who sent His Son to die for you while you were still a sinner (Romans 5:8). Jesus did not endure the cross for you to perish in despair. He rose again so that you could walk in newness of life (Romans 6:4). If you have never fully surrendered your life to Him, now is the time. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Salvation is not found in your strength, your works, or even your prayers—it is found in Jesus alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is in such deep pain. Lord, You are the God who collects our tears in a bottle (Psalm 56:8), and we know You have not forgotten them. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around them right now and let them feel Your presence in a tangible way. Break the chains of despair, Father, and replace their sorrow with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are their ever-present help, their strong tower, and their deliverer.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch to mend the broken places in their heart and mind. If there is unconfessed sin, reveal it to them so they may find forgiveness and freedom. If there is bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness, soften their heart to release it to You. If there is loneliness, surround them with Your love and with godly community. If there is physical or mental illness, we pray for Your healing power to restore them. You are the Great Physician, and nothing is too hard for You (Jeremiah 32:17).
Father, we also pray for wisdom and discernment for them. Lead them to the right people—pastors, counselors, or trusted believers—who can walk alongside them in this season. Give them the courage to reach out for help, knowing that it is not a sign of weakness but of strength. Surround them with people who will speak life, truth, and hope into their situation.
Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would renew their hope. Remind them that this life is not the end—that there is an eternal home waiting for them where there will be no more pain, no more tears, and no more death (Revelation 21:4). Until then, help them to take one step at a time, trusting in You. Fill them with Your joy, which is their strength (Nehemiah 8:10), and let them experience Your goodness even in the midst of their struggle.
We declare over them that they are more than conquerors through Christ who loves them (Romans 8:37). We speak life, healing, and restoration into their spirit, soul, and body. May they rise up from this place of darkness and walk in the light of Your love. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we want you to know that your pain matters to God, and it matters to us. You are not a burden, and you do not have to carry this alone. The Bible tells us to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we are here to do just that. If you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm or suicide, please reach out to someone you trust—a pastor, a counselor, a friend, or even a crisis hotline. You are valued, you are loved, and your life has purpose.
We encourage you to cling to God’s promises, even when they feel distant. Write down verses that speak to you and meditate on them daily. Here are a few to start:
"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul" (Psalm 23:1-3).
"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28).
"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13).
Lastly, if you have not already, consider finding a local church or Christian community where you can be surrounded by believers who will pray for you, encourage you, and walk with you. You were not meant to do life alone, and God often works through His people to bring healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you, and we believe that God is already at work in your life. Keep crying out to Him—He hears you, and He will answer.