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Hi my name is ### I'm going through a hard time right now. My husband has filed for divorce and I'm so tired of going through this divorce it has financially drained me. We have a baby together and it breaks my heart knowing that my husband asked for a divorce and seems so different to the man I married the man I knew one day now he's someone who I dont understand who he is who he is acting like. We are about to the next step in this divorce and my husband is not willing to be flexible. I ask for help intercessing for this matter May God help me May God soften the hearts that need to be soften so that we can come to an agreement I only want to keep it safe and civil. It hurts so much this process. I also ask to help me pray May God give me the strength to move forward without being scared of the future. Im just tired and I do not want to worry about this divorce no more I am happy that God has helped me please pray for my son and I and my husband may God do his perfect work ❤️
 
We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you as you walk through this valley. The breaking of a marriage covenant is a grievous wound, especially when children are involved, and the financial strain only adds to the burden. We want you to know that you are not alone, God sees every tear, hears every cry, and holds your son close in His care. The man you once knew may feel like a stranger now, but the Lord is the restorer of all things, and He can soften hearts even when they seem hardened.

First, we must address the foundation of our prayers. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you" (John 16:23 WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your heart fully to Him, for He is the only one who can bring true healing and restoration. If you have not confessed Jesus as Lord and believed in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, we urge you to do so now, for "if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9 WEB).

Now, let us lift this situation before the Lord with boldness and faith. Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, interceding for this precious sister and her son. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), but You also bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1). We ask You to intervene in this marriage, softening hearts and opening doors for reconciliation if it is Your will. If restoration is not possible, we pray for Your peace to guard her heart and mind, and for wisdom to navigate this process with grace. Give her strength to stand firm, not in fear, but in the confidence that You hold her future. Provide for every financial need, Lord, and protect her son from the trauma of this season. We rebuke the spirit of division and hardness of heart, and we declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). May Your perfect will be done, and may Your name be glorified in every outcome.

Scripture tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). This is not the time to lean on your own strength or understanding, but to cast every care upon the Lord, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Even when the path ahead feels uncertain, God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps a pastor or Christian marriage counselor, who can provide wisdom and support during this time. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you, encourage you, and remind you of God’s promises.

We also want to gently address the reality of this situation. Divorce is painful, but it is not the end of your story. God can redeem even the most broken circumstances. However, if your husband is unwilling to reconcile and has hardened his heart, we must trust that the Lord will guide you in the next steps. Your priority now is to protect your son and to walk in a way that honors God, even in the midst of this trial. Do not allow bitterness or resentment to take root in your heart, for "looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it" (Hebrews 12:15 WEB).

Lastly, we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by this marriage or its outcome. You are a daughter of the King, deeply loved and cherished by Him. Even in this storm, He is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will lead you into a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11).

We will continue to stand in the gap for you, praying for restoration, peace, and God’s perfect will to be done. May the Lord surround you with His presence, provide for every need, and give you the strength to walk this path with faith and courage. You are not forgotten, and you are deeply loved.
 
We hear the weariness in your words, and we want you to know we’re standing with you. The financial drain, the confusion over who your husband has become, and the ache of seeing your baby caught in the middle, that’s a heavy weight to carry. It’s okay to feel exhausted and scared of what’s ahead. You’re not weak for feeling that; you’re human.

Since the next legal step is already approaching and flexibility seems hard to come by, one concrete thing that can sometimes ease both the emotional strain and the financial cost is divorce mediation. If you haven’t already, it might be worth exploring a neutral third party who can help you both navigate the practical decisions without the full adversarial pressure of court. It doesn’t fix the heartbreak, but it can help protect your son and you from some of the deeper damage litigation often leaves behind. You mentioned you only want to keep things safe and civil, that’s a wise and humble desire, and mediation aligns with that goal.

Beyond that, we’re simply grateful you reached out. Even in this pain, you’re not trying to walk alone, and that shows real courage. God doesn’t promise us an easy path, but He does promise to be with us in the middle of it. Right now, strength for today is enough. Tomorrow’s grace will be there when tomorrow comes.

Lord Jesus, we lift up our sister and her little one. She is tired, and the ground under her feels shaky. Please be her steady place. Give her practical wisdom for the next legal step, and if it’s Your will, soften every heart involved so this can resolve without further harm. Guard her son’s heart and future. Give her sleep when she can’t find it, provision where she lacks, and just enough light for the very next step. In Your name we pray.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
It is no small thing to be weary in the midst of such a storm, where the very foundations of home and heart seem to sink beneath the waves. Yet the promise stands just now for you as fresh as the dew upon the grass: they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. You are at the end of your own force; your purse is drained, your spirit spent, your hope bruised. Here is good gospel for such a case. When there is no might in you, then fling yourself upon the Divine strength, for to those who have no might He increases strength. Do not look within for resources that have quite dried up, but wait upon Him who never fails.

You have asked for softened hearts. Oh, let me point you where hearts are truly melted. Not by arguments or fears, but by the hammer of love. It is at the cross that the flintiest spirit is broken. Steadfastly consider Jesus pierced for our sins, and the heart must relent. You may be tempted to dwell upon the strange hardness of your husband, this man who seems so different from the one you knew. I charge you, turn your eyes away from trying to understand that mystery and instead behold the pierced One. It was love, mighty love, that led Him there. Present your own heart to that melting fire, and trust that God can apply the same bleeding, softening balm to any heart He chooses. If this does not break and melt, nothing will. Pray then, not only for a civil agreement, but with a mighty pleading that the Holy Spirit would take of the things of Christ and show them unto the soul that now resists. A sight of Him slain by our sins will work a deeper softening than all our entreaties.

And yet I hear you, trembling at the next step, fearing the unknown days ahead. Did He not command, "Fear not, thou worm Jacob, I will help thee"? It is precisely to the worm, trodden in the dust, helpless and trembling, that this word comes. Fear is painful; it torments the spirit. Fear is weakening; it takes away the very strength you need to press on. And far worse, fear dishonors God. To doubt the Eternal, to distrust the Omnipotent is to lay a stain upon the arm that piled the heavens. Let not this traitorous fear have dominion over you. The Lord your God says, "I will strengthen thee." Take that promise as a cheque for an unlimited sum, and present it at the bank of heaven. Whatever there may be of your weakness, there shall be as much of God's strength. Whatever the darkness of the future, there is the light of His presence. You need not shut your eyes to the future; you may look straight ahead with clear eyes, knowing that as your days so shall your strength be.

Do not think you must carry this burden alone. You are weary, dear soul, and He knows your frame. He does not chide you for being tired; He bids you wait upon Him that your strength may be renewed. That word "wait" does not mean idleness, but holy dependence, like a servant whose eyes are fixed upon her mistress's hand. Look for strength from hour to hour, and it will be gradually received, wisely balanced for each trial. The glory of that strength will never lie in your own courage or wisdom; it must lie in God alone. Then you will glory in the cross of Christ, the main strength of the gospel, and you will find that in proportion as your faith grows stronger, your fears will vanish.

Your little one is in the hollow of that same pierced hand. You are not alone, for He has said, "I am with you." And this is not the presence of a spectator, but of a helper. The boat may be tossed, but you carry Jesus and all His fortunes; the ship cannot sink. Go now to your knees, and there let the cross melt your own sorrows, and then pray on until you can leave the outcome with Him. He who forgave all your sins and put His holy fear in your heart will not forsake the work of His own hands. Fear not. Only trust.
 

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