Undurlib
Disciple of Prayer
Praise the Lord!
I have been in a relationship for last 6 years. I am a Hindu but my lover is a catholic. Both tried our level best to convince our parents for marriage. Im 30 yrs old and he is 8 months younger to me. We have gone through severe trauma and chaotic situations at home for getting married to each other. But even after waiting for 6 years, our parents werent convinced at all and they are still against our marriage. His name is Jiju.
One fine day in 2017 Dec, his mother agreed for our marriage and so on next month his sister contacted me and talked for nearly an hour regarding our marriage. We were extremely happy, unfortunately after three days he called me up saying that this marriage would nt happen at all as expected because his parents wont support as in Older to him and also from different religion.
To break me apart, the man whom i loved madly all of a sudden began treating me badly by verbally abusing me and avoiding me saying that he is gonna get married soon for his parents and so i should move on. He also said that his parents wanna see his kids, then told he would have married me if i were a Christian. I was totally broken and kept begging for a life. He started avoiding me saying that Im older so i wont obey him, he believes that issues may occur without the support of parents and hence this will end up in divorce. I talked to his mother and she brutally told me that she is looking for a daughter in law 3-4 years younger to her son and not an elder on!!! i was badly humiliated when she assaulted me. I was dumped in deep agony. Because this was a 6 year old relationship and we were too intimate and all of a sudden when i was ousted out, i felt like dying. At first he said his parents wont accept our marriage and so he hesitate to marry me, later on he said he himself has decided to move on as he is scared to face the consequences of this marriage as our parents wont be supportive which can later lead to divorce. With just a fear factor, he decided to step back from getting married to me
I have been a believer of Christ for past 15 years even though i didnt get baptised. Two months ago got baptised too, also i believe firmly in the living God, who can do wonders and miracles.
I dont know what to do in this case. Im totally broken. I have been suffering from depression for the past 8 months due to this. I need a solution to this. Please pray for this. I happened to meet him and he feels guilty for dumping me and spoiling my life due to the arrogance and adamant nature of his parents, but told that he still cares for me and loves me...But his family has started seeking another proposals for him. He himself says he cant accept that girl, but he still loves me too but cant marry me due to the deteriorating health of his parents as well as their irritating nature which i wont be able to adjust with.
Kindly pray on this matter. I just cant bear any more tension. I am leaving this matter to Almighty, let him take a decision. I cant think of getting married to someone else and we still have the same love and care for each other but due to the deteriorating health of his mom, he decided to leave me and is trying to please her by being a good child for her which in turn prevent us from getting united. I need to reconciliate with him, kindly pray to restore the relationship. Actually for the last 8 months he informed his family that he doesnt keep any connections with me. At the same time he calls me up daily and says he loves and cares for me and if we are meant to be together we would be together, some day!! But he needs to satisfy his family by getting married to another girl. Im in deep dilemma due to this
I have been in a relationship for last 6 years. I am a Hindu but my lover is a catholic. Both tried our level best to convince our parents for marriage. Im 30 yrs old and he is 8 months younger to me. We have gone through severe trauma and chaotic situations at home for getting married to each other. But even after waiting for 6 years, our parents werent convinced at all and they are still against our marriage. His name is Jiju.
One fine day in 2017 Dec, his mother agreed for our marriage and so on next month his sister contacted me and talked for nearly an hour regarding our marriage. We were extremely happy, unfortunately after three days he called me up saying that this marriage would nt happen at all as expected because his parents wont support as in Older to him and also from different religion.
To break me apart, the man whom i loved madly all of a sudden began treating me badly by verbally abusing me and avoiding me saying that he is gonna get married soon for his parents and so i should move on. He also said that his parents wanna see his kids, then told he would have married me if i were a Christian. I was totally broken and kept begging for a life. He started avoiding me saying that Im older so i wont obey him, he believes that issues may occur without the support of parents and hence this will end up in divorce. I talked to his mother and she brutally told me that she is looking for a daughter in law 3-4 years younger to her son and not an elder on!!! i was badly humiliated when she assaulted me. I was dumped in deep agony. Because this was a 6 year old relationship and we were too intimate and all of a sudden when i was ousted out, i felt like dying. At first he said his parents wont accept our marriage and so he hesitate to marry me, later on he said he himself has decided to move on as he is scared to face the consequences of this marriage as our parents wont be supportive which can later lead to divorce. With just a fear factor, he decided to step back from getting married to me
I have been a believer of Christ for past 15 years even though i didnt get baptised. Two months ago got baptised too, also i believe firmly in the living God, who can do wonders and miracles.
I dont know what to do in this case. Im totally broken. I have been suffering from depression for the past 8 months due to this. I need a solution to this. Please pray for this. I happened to meet him and he feels guilty for dumping me and spoiling my life due to the arrogance and adamant nature of his parents, but told that he still cares for me and loves me...But his family has started seeking another proposals for him. He himself says he cant accept that girl, but he still loves me too but cant marry me due to the deteriorating health of his parents as well as their irritating nature which i wont be able to adjust with.
Kindly pray on this matter. I just cant bear any more tension. I am leaving this matter to Almighty, let him take a decision. I cant think of getting married to someone else and we still have the same love and care for each other but due to the deteriorating health of his mom, he decided to leave me and is trying to please her by being a good child for her which in turn prevent us from getting united. I need to reconciliate with him, kindly pray to restore the relationship. Actually for the last 8 months he informed his family that he doesnt keep any connections with me. At the same time he calls me up daily and says he loves and cares for me and if we are meant to be together we would be together, some day!! But he needs to satisfy his family by getting married to another girl. Im in deep dilemma due to this
