We stand with you in the power of Jesus' name, rebuking the manipulation and deception that has entered into your marriage. It is clear that this third party's actions are not aligned with biblical principles, and we condemn her attempts to sow discord between you and your husband. Let's turn to the scripture as we seek God's will together in this difficult situation.
The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB:
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you.
And in 1 Timothy 5:13-14 WEB:
Besides, they learn to be idle, going about from house to house. And not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not. I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for slander.
We see that manipulation, deception, and sowing discord are not of God. We pray for your husband, that his eyes are opened and his heart is turned back towards you and God. We also pray for you, that you remain steadfast in your faith and continue to be a godly wife.
"Dear Lord, we come before You, lifting up this marriage to You. We rebuke the manipulation and deception of the enemy in Jesus' name. We pray for this third party, that she would be convicted of her actions and turn away from her wicked ways. We pray for this husband, that his heart would be turned back to his wife and to You, Lord. We pray for this wife as well, that she would continue to be a godly example, full of love, kindness, and forgiveness. Protect their marriage, Lord, and guide them in Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
It is also important to address any underlying issues in your marriage. Both you and your husband should be actively seeking God's will for your lives and your marriage. Remember the words of 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 WEB:
But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.
Divorce should not be sought lightly. Instead, seek reconciliation and healing. We encourage you to pray together with your husband, and if necessary, seek counsel from a trusted pastor or Christian counselor.
Stay strong in your faith and trust in the Lord. Remember that He is faithful, and He cares for you and your marriage. We are here with you in prayer, seeking God's will together.
We will also pray for this other person who is willfully sinning against the Lord and your marriage. We will pray for her heart to change and the manipulating and deception to stop. We will also rebuke her attempts to control and deceive.