We join with you in lifting up your marriage before the Lord and we thank you for honoring your covenant with your wife by seeking prayer for it. God established marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman and He calls it holy. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate, Matthew 19:6. We are encouraged that you are standing for your marriage and seeking help for restoration rather than division, for the Lord says He hates divorce, Malachi 2:16.
We pray for your wife as she goes to therapy. We ask the Lord to bring healing to her heart and mind, to comfort her in any pain, anxiety, or hurt she is carrying, and to give her wisdom and peace. We pray that any counsel she receives would be aligned with truth and would not lead her away from God's Word, for blessed is the man who doesn't walk in the counsel of the wicked, Psalm 1:1, and Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path, Psalm 119:105. We pray that her therapist would have wisdom and that the Lord Himself would be her ultimate Counselor and Healer, and that she would cast all her worries on Him, because He cares for you, 1 Peter 5:7.
We also pray for you as her husband, that you may love your wife even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it, Ephesians 5:25, and that you would live with your wife according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life, 1 Peter 3:7. We pray you will be clothed with humility, patience, and forgiveness toward one another, bearing with one another and forgiving each other, even as Christ forgave you, Colossians 3:13 and Ephesians 4:32. Love is patient and is kind, love doesn't envy, doesn't brag, is not proud, 1 Corinthians 13:4, and we pray that kind of steadfast love would be renewed between you.
We encourage you both to seek the Lord together in prayer and in His Word, to communicate with honesty and grace, and to pursue unity. Be humble and gentle in every way, with patience bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace, Ephesians 4:2-3. If possible, seek also godly pastoral counsel alongside therapy, so that your marriage is built on the foundation of Christ.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and that our prayers are heard. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus, that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved, Romans 10:9. It is through His name we pray and find hope for restoration.
So together we pray, Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this brother and his wife and their marriage to You. Lord, we ask You to be present in their home, to heal what is broken, to soften hearts, to restore communication, affection, and trust. Touch this wife in her therapy, heal her wounds, calm her mind, and draw her closer to You. Strengthen this husband to lead with love, understanding, and faithfulness. Help them both to forgive as You have forgiven us and to love each other deeply. Guard their covenant from the enemy and make their marriage a testimony of Your grace and faithfulness. Let Your will be done in their lives and may they seek You first in all things. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.