We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation to Him in prayer. First, we must address the foundation of our communication with God—it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* (John 16:23-24 WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for *"there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12 WEB).
Now, regarding the relationship you’ve mentioned, we must approach this with both compassion and biblical truth. The Lord desires healing and restoration, but it must be in alignment with His Word. We notice that you refer to this person as "###," which suggests this may be a romantic relationship. If this is a courtship or marriage, we pray fervently for God’s will to be done. However, if this is a relationship that does not honor God—such as one involving fornication, adultery, or an unbiblical union—we must rebuke that in Jesus’ name and call for repentance. The Bible is clear: *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If this relationship is not a marriage between one man and one woman, we must exhort you to seek God’s forgiveness and realign your life with His design.
If this is a godly marriage or a courtship with the intention of marriage, we stand with you in prayer. Father God, we ask You to soften hearts, break down walls of pride or bitterness, and restore communication. Lord, we pray for peace to flood this relationship, for understanding to replace confusion, and for Your wisdom to guide every decision. *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* (James 1:5 WEB). We declare that no weapon formed against this union shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that love, patience, and forgiveness will reign.
But if this relationship is not rooted in Christ, we must warn you that no amount of prayer for restoration will bear godly fruit if it is not first submitted to God’s will. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If your partner is not a believer, we urge you to seek the Lord’s guidance on whether this is a relationship He can bless. If it is a marriage, we pray for your spouse’s salvation and for you to be a light in their life, as 1 Peter 3:1-2 instructs wives to win their husbands without a word by their godly conduct.
Lord Jesus, we ask You to reveal Your truth in this situation. If restoration is Your will, we pray for it to be done in a way that glorifies You. If this relationship is not of You, we pray for the strength to let go and trust in Your perfect plan. Give wisdom, discernment, and courage to walk in obedience. We declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
