We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address your request and then we'll discuss a biblical view on relationships.
Let's pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before You, lifting up our brother in need of Your guidance and wisdom. Lord, he feels distanced from the woman he cares for, and we ask that You mend their communication and understanding. We pray that You help her see the sincerity in his heart and that You remove any negative influences that may be causing strife. We do not merely want to bring them closer, but we desire that your will be done in their relationship.
However, we also pray that You give him the strength and clarity to evaluate this relationship. Help him discern if this woman is truly seeking a godly union or if she is causing unwarranted harm and strife. We pray for clarity.
Lord, we also pray for her salvation and that she seeks to follow you just as we pray for him to seek you more. We pray that they both look to you for a future spouse and do not merely look to each other. We pray that their relationship glorifies You and aligns with Your will in Jesus' name."
Now, let's consider your relationship in light of biblical principles. It's important to remember that God desires that we treat each other with kindness and respect, as stated in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." If this woman is continually treating you poorly and blocking communication, it might be a sign that this relationship may not be aligned with God's will.
Additionally, it's crucial to seek God's will in any relationship, with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer in mind. 2 Corinthians 6:14 tells us, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This means that if she is not a believer, this relationship will be unlikely to bring glory to God. We should be asking God for good wives or husbands rather than just girlfriends and boyfriends.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer does not mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And as it says in Acts 4:12; "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." It is only by believing in the Lord Jesus Christ that we can truly call God our Father. If you have any questions about salvation through Jesus Christ, please let us know.