BlueFlame371

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Hello, I'm feeling extremely discouraged in my relationship. I'm on my knees in hopelessness, weary, exhausted & undone from within. One part of this is I need to share how I feel to be carried through. The other is he is responsive to my prayers but he is a narcissistic serial cheater. The toxicity from non-stop sexual, emotional cheating makes him demonically battering/abusive toward me emotionally & verbally. It also causes him to be sexually abusive in the specific senses of depriving intimacy, respect & recklessly using me to do all the hardest work, especially financially. I know most of you would just think I should leave. I will if he stops doing things on my terms, including getting married. I'm very weak & vulnerable too. Thank you.
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and distress you are experiencing in your relationship. First and foremost, we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB.

However, we must address that the situation you are describing is not a healthy or godly relationship. The behaviors you mentioned—infidelity, emotional and verbal abuse, sexual abuse, and financial exploitation—are not only harmful but also clearly against biblical principles. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB and that a man who commits adultery lacks understanding Proverbs 6:32 WEB.

It is also crucial to understand that marriage is a sacred and serious commitment, not a bargaining tool. Entering into a marriage with someone who is currently engaging in such harmful behaviors may not be wise, as marriage should be a covenant between a man and a woman who are both committed to God and to each other Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB.

Moreover, we want to emphasize that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. We did not see any mention of Jesus in the request. If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and seeking His will and guidance with your whole heart.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is in deep pain and distress. Lord, we pray for Your healing, comfort, and guidance in her life. Give her the strength to make wise decisions, and if it is Your will, help her to find a way out of this harmful situation. We also pray for the man in this relationship, that You would convict his heart and bring him to true repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. And know that the Lord your God is the one who goes over before you. As your rear guard, he will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear, nor be dismayed. Deuteronomy 31:6,8 WEB.
 
We hear you, sister, and we're here with you in this. We know it's hard, feeling so exhausted and hopeless, but remember, God is right there with you, carrying you through. We've been where you are, feeling the weight of a partner's infidelity and abuse, and it's a heavy cross to bear.

We understand your desire to be heard and understood, to have your pain acknowledged. It's okay to feel weak and vulnerable right now, and it's okay to ask for help. We're here for you, and so is God. He sees you, He knows your pain, and He's walking beside you.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to pour out your heart to Him in prayer. He's a safe place to lay all your fears, doubts, and sorrows. And remember, Jesus is the ultimate healer. He can heal your broken heart, your weary soul, and your exhausted spirit.

We also want to remind you that God has a plan for you, a good plan (Jeremiah 29:11). He sees your situation, and He's working things out for your good. Trust in Him, even when it's hard to see His plan unfolding.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up our ### who's hurting. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on her heart. Give her strength, courage, and wisdom to navigate this difficult relationship. Help her to trust in You, even when she can't see the way forward. Lord, we also pray for her partner, that You would soften his heart, bring him to repentance, and help him to change his ways. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Heavenly Father please intervene in this relationship and bring about peace. Please Father also soften hearts and grant the ability and will to put you first. I lift this prayer up on your glory and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
You are currently considered an adulterous, that is according to the word of God. I don't know about him, but you definitely need repentance and change of mind about God and stop being lukewarm carnal believer who does what everyone else does because it's normal. Repent and commit your ways to the Lord, otherwise your sin will drag you to hell and you will remember this message warning you.

Lord, you hate sin, I pray would you bring clarity to this ungodly situation, a choice to follow you to Golgotha, your word says narrow is the way and few are that find it, broad is the way that leads to destruction. Lord I pray for clarity to what the right thing to do is, in Jesus mighty name amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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You are currently considered an adulterous, that is according to the word of God. I don't know about him, but you definitely need repentance and change of mind about God and stop being lukewarm carnal believer who does what everyone else does because it's normal. Repent and commit your ways to the Lord, otherwise your sin will drag you to hell and you will remember this message warning you.

Lord, you hate sin, I pray would you bring clarity to this ungodly situation, a choice to follow you to Golgotha, your word says narrow is the way and few are that find it, broad is the way that leads to destruction. Lord I pray for clarity to what the right thing to do is, in Jesus mighty name amen.
Not as long as I repent according to 1Joh1:9 & seek wholeness. ### sound like you're without sin. Plz be reminded that not all is where you're at in the Faith Journey. When it comes to lust, adultery & sexual immorality, including prostitution The Lord showed grace, mercy& redemption in the New Testament. Under His Blood, I reject your judgmental word & return your prayer to yourself "for clarity to do the right thing". Do know I hate all sins creating disorder & dysfunctionality in all areas of life in Christ.
 

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