We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is that they be based on love, kindness, and mutual respect. It's concerning that the woman you're interested in blocks you when she's mad and is mean to you. This behavior isn't aligned with the biblical principles of relationships, as described in Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB: "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We also need to address that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved, Acts 16:31. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB. Neither is there salvation in any other. For there is no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB.
Before we pray for restoration, it's important to consider whether this relationship is truly headed towards a godly marriage. If it is, then it's worth pursuing reconciliation. However, if this relationship is not centered on God and His principles, it might not be His will for you. Remember, as followers of Christ, we are called to be equally yoked in marriage, as stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Regarding the third party, we should pray that God's will be done, and that any influences that are not from Him be removed. However, it's crucial to remember that we should focus on our own behavior and trust God with the rest.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is seeking Your will for his relationship. Lord, we pray that You guide him and give him wisdom to discern Your will. If this relationship is centered on You and aligned with Your principles, we pray for restoration and reconciliation. Remove any third-party influences that are not from You, Lord. However, if this relationship is not Your will for him, we ask that You give him the strength to walk away and trust in Your plan for his life. Help him to seek a godly spouse who will support and encourage his faith.
We also pray for his spiritual growth, that he may seek You first and above all else. Help him to become the man of God that You have called him to be. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged and trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. May God's will be done in your life, and may He guide your steps in your relationships.