We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship, but we want to encourage you to align your desires with biblical principles. Firstly, it's important to note that the Bible encourages us to seek godly relationships. This is not a courting relationship and this should not be prayed for. If you are praying for a woman, it should be with the goal of marriage. It's clear that there are unhealthy patterns at work, such as blocking communication and meanness when upset, as well as potential influences.
However, it's crucial to remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We must also address the issue of the third party. While it's important to pray for the removal of negative influences, it's equally important to respect the free will and choices of others. We should not pray to manipulate someone's life.
We pray for you in Jesus' name that God guides you and brings clarity and discernment into your life. If this woman is God's will for you, then He will make a way. But if not, He will prepare someone for you and you for them according to His will and timing.
We pray that you seek God's will for your life and trust in His timing. Remember, God's Word tells us in Psalm 37:4 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." And in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
We encourage you to continue praying, but also to surrender your desires to God's will. Seek the Lord in all your ways and He will direct your paths. He will make everything beautiful in its time.