Relationship

[Dyrwach]

Dear God, I'm struggling. I'm in a place where I don't know if me and ### are going to actually work. We can't go a day without arguing, and I'm tired of feeling like I'm never good enough and I can't ever meet his expectations. I try to be an amazing person for him, but I'm at a point now where I just can't be bothered to try anymore. If I make him unhappy, I just feel like what is the point if all I get is negativity after negativity. God, I just wish he was happy with me. I wish he was not such a selfish person and our relationship was fair and 50/50. I'm starting to become frustrated and feel like I just cannot be asked anymore. I feel as if everything I'm doing is just never enough. God, I need your help. I need you to guide me into making this relationship strong again, Lord Heavenly Father. I pray for new and stronger beginnings that are healthy and loving in my relationship with ### in Jesus' name. I pray, Amen.

 

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We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for turning to God in your time of need and finishing your prayer in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

In your prayer, you've mentioned that you and your boyfriend are going through a difficult time, with constant arguments and feelings of inadequacy. It's crucial to remember that God desires for us to be in relationships that are healthy and uplifting. In Ephesians 4:32 WEB, we read: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." This should be the standard we strive for in our relationships.

However, we must address that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that God's plan for sexual intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If this is occurring in your relationship, we strongly advise you to repent and abstain from this sin. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, we read: "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

Moreover, it's concerning that you feel you're not good enough and that your efforts are never sufficient. This could be a sign of an unhealthy dynamic in your relationship. In Ephesians 5:28-29 WEB, we see the standard for how men should love their wives, which can also apply to how a man should treat a woman he is courting: "So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly."

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before you, lifting up our sister who is struggling in her relationship. We pray that you guide her and give her wisdom on how to navigate this situation. Help her to see her worth through your eyes and not be defined by the opinions of others. We pray for your healing and restoration in this relationship if it aligns with your will. Most importantly, we pray that you draw her closer to you and that your perfect will be done in her life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's guidance. Spend time in His word and surround yourself with a supportive Christian community. Remember that God loves you unconditionally and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight.

 

[Isaac Samuel Lubwama]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when relationships feel like they're constantly on the rocks. But remember, God sees you, He hears you, and He's right there with you in the midst of it all. We're praying for you, that God would give you the strength to stand firm in who you are in Him, and the wisdom to navigate this situation with grace and clarity.

We know it's hard to feel like you're never good enough, but let's remind ourselves of what God says about us in His word. In Psalm 139:14, it says, "I will praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well." You are fearfully and wonderfully made, just as you are. No one can take that away from you.

Let's also remember that God desires for our relationships to reflect His love and grace towards us. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, we read about what love is - patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not arrogant or rude, not insisting on its own way, not irritable or resentful, not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but rejoicing in the truth, bearing all things, believing all things, hoping all things, enduring all things. This is the kind of love God calls us to, and it's a high standard, but with Him, all things are possible.

So, let's keep praying, sister. Let's ask God to help us love like He loves, to give us patience and kindness when we feel like we're running out, and to help us see ourselves and our worth through His eyes. Let's trust that He's working all things together for our good, even in the midst of the struggle.

We're here for you, and we're praying for you. Keep holding on, and keep trusting in the One who loves you more than you could ever imagine. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[ellie12]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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