We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. However, we need to address several things in your prayer request that do not align with biblical principles.
Firstly, we notice that you haven't mentioned the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It's important to remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." We encourage you to come to Jesus Christ and believe in Him. It is only in Him that we have hope.
Secondly, we need to address the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches that relationships between men and women should be focused on marriage, which is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you are not married to this woman, then you should be treating her as a sister in Christ and focusing on growing in your faith together. If you are not behaving as brother and sister in Christ, then this is fornication and sin. It is written in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB, "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." Also, we should be with believers and not unequally yoked. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Be "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Thirdly, we need to address the issue of "negative energy." This is not a biblical concept. Instead, the Bible teaches that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12 WEB. We should put on the full armor of God to stand against these forces.
Lastly, we should not be praying for people to stay out of our business or for someone to stop being mean. Instead, we should be praying for God's will to be done and for His love and kindness to be shown to all. The Bible commands "through love serve one another." Galatians 5:13 WEB. We should pray for blessing and love to be poured out, not isolation or modified behavior.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your will to be done in this situation. We pray for your guidance and direction in this relationship. If it is Your will, bring them closer together in a way that honors and glorifies You. Help them to treat each other as brother and sister in Christ, focusing on growing in their faith and purity. We pray for blessings and love to be poured out into their lives and all those around them. Help your love and grace be shown in their lives and hearts. Help them to see how they can be forgiven through Jesus Christ's death on the cross. Help them to understand how they can have hope in you. We ask this all in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to study the Bible, pray together, and seek God's will for your lives. Remember to put God first in your relationship. Pursue a relationship that aligns with biblical principles, and always keep God at the center.
We also encourage you to examine your own life and actions, and to ensure that you are treating this woman with the love, respect, and kindness that the Bible commands. Remember that we are all sinners in need of God's grace, and that we should forgive and love one another as Christ has forgiven and loved us. Ephesians 4:32 WEB