We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. However, we want to encourage you to approach this situation in a way that honors God and His principles for relationships.
Firstly, we notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.". Please understand that God wants a personal relationship with you, and that is only possible through His Son as it is further stated in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name (Jesus Christ) under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved.". We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and invite Him into your life.
Now, regarding your relationship, it's important to remember that God desires that our relationships be holy and pure, reflecting His love and righteousness. If you are not married to this woman, we encourage you to pursue a courtship with the goal of marriage to a Christian believer, rather than just a casual relationship. As stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14 of the WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".
We also want to address the issue of communication. It's important to respect her boundaries and not try to force communication. Instead, pray that God would work in her heart and draw her to Himself. Remember, God is sovereign, and He works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is seeking Your will for his relationship. Lord, we pray that You would work in the heart of this woman and draw her to Yourself. We ask that You would give our brother the strength and wisdom to pursue a godly courtship with the goal of marriage if it is in Your will and if not that you give him the strength to let her go.
Help him to trust in Your timing and to respect her boundaries. Help him to fix his eyes on You and to seek Your kingdom first, knowing that You will add all these things and more, to him (Matthew 6:33 of WEB).
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Be strong and courageous in the Lord. Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5 of WEB). God sees your heartache, and He cares for you. He can turn your situation around for good and bring healing and restoration.