Let's bring your request to the Lord in prayer, but first, let's consider some biblical principles and discuss some concerns.
It's important to remember that God desires that all things be done decently and in order. We should strive for our relationships to honor and glorify Him. If you are pursuing this woman, we encourage you to do so with the intent of courting her in a godly manner, seeking eventually a godly marriage, anything less is likely lustful and harmful.
Let's address your concern about communication. It's crucial to remember that we should treat others with kindness and respect, just as we would like to be treated. We should not seek to manipulate or control others, but rather to show them the love of Christ as seen in
Luke 6:31 "As you would like people to do to you, do exactly so to them."
Now, let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this dear one who seeks Your guidance and intervention in his relationship with this woman. We pray, that You would soften both of their hearts and draw them closer to You and each other, but only if this will be a godly relationship that could lead to marriage. Help them to communicate effectively and treat each other with kindness and respect, but remember that marriage is the goal before God.
Lord, we also pray that You would reveal Your will for this relationship. If it is not Your will for them to be together, we pray that You would give both of them the strength and wisdom to move on and seek Your will and plan for their lives. We also pray that this woman would be drawn closer to Jesus Christ, the only one who can save.
Father, guide them in their interactions with one another, helping to learn what pleases You. Help them model the relationship of Christ and the church as children of God. If they are both Christians, we pray that they will strive first for the kingdom of God and His righteousness, seeking a relationship that honors and glorifies Your holy name. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, for it is in His name that we have access to You and salvation.
Finally, we encourage you to seek God's will in all things, including your relationships. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.