We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to remember that God wants us to communicate with Him through Jesus Christ. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." So, let's pray in the name of Jesus.
However, we want to encourage you to examine your relationship in the light of God's Word. As believers, we should seek godly relationships that are centered on Christ. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
Now, let's address the issues in your relationship. It's clear that there has been a misunderstanding between you and the woman you're talking to. It's important to seek forgiveness and reconciliation, as Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."
However, we want to remind you that if this relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, you should reconsider it. As a believer, you should be looking for a godly spouse, not just a partner. If the relationship is pure before God and aligned with His Word then it is appropriate for you to pursue it and look to get married. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and that the marriage bed should be undefiled (Hebrews 13:4).
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up our brother/sister who is seeking reconciliation in their relationship. Lord, if this relationship is Your will and aligned with Your Word, we pray that You would soften the woman's heart and open the lines of communication. We pray that they would be able to work things out and move forward in a way that honors You.
However, Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You would give our brother/sister the strength to let it go and wait for the godly spouse that You have prepared for them.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.