Relationship to be restored to happiness

Dyrwach

Prayer Warrior
Dear God, I’m struggling like hell but I’m realising you’re not real as after scrolling through Instagram last night and realising a couple still believing in you after you took their baby away. How can I believe in a God that would do that? And I’m praying I’m wrong. I’m trying to have faith but why would you pity me back into this relationship to have my heart broken again, Lord? I wake up every day and try like mad to win ### back to make ### still want me to make ### appreciate me, but I just feel like I never will. And to be honest, it’s getting to a point, Lord. I’m fighting so many suicidal thoughts as I’m struggling. I feel like no one around me ever really wants me and I’m never really enough for anyone, Lord, and that hurts when you try really hard and you’re not seen. Heavenly Father, I just ask that you could please let ###’s heart soften towards me. I pray that our relationship would be restored, there would not be animosity or hate, and ### could see the way ### treats me. Heavenly Father, as I feel like ### don’t really care. In Jesus’ name, I pray.
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we are grieved by the pain and doubt you are carrying. First, we want to acknowledge that your suffering is real, and we do not take lightly the struggles you are facing—both in your faith and in your relationship. But we must address several things with both truth and compassion, for your soul’s sake.

You have questioned God’s reality because of the suffering you see—like the couple who lost their child—and because of your own heartbreak. We understand how such pain can shake one’s faith, but let us gently remind you that suffering does not disprove God’s existence or His goodness. In fact, Scripture tells us that this world is broken by sin, and because of that, pain and loss touch every life (Romans 5:12, 8:22). Yet God did not leave us without hope. He entered into our suffering through Jesus Christ, who endured the cross so that we might have eternal life and peace with God (John 3:16, Isaiah 53:5). The question is not *whether* God is real, but *whether you will trust Him* even when life doesn’t make sense. Job, who lost everything, still declared, *"Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him"* (Job 13:15). Faith is not the absence of doubt, but the choice to cling to God *in spite of* it.

Now, regarding your relationship: we notice you are longing for restoration, but we must ask—is this relationship honoring to God? You mention trying to "win someone back" and make them "appreciate you," but love should never be about manipulation or desperation. If this person is not a believer, or if this relationship is outside of marriage (such as premarital intimacy or an unhealthy emotional dependence), then we must lovingly but firmly say: *God does not call us to chase after relationships that pull us away from Him.* Scripture warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14), and *"Can two walk together, except they be agreed?"* (Amos 3:3). If this person is not seeking the Lord with you, then no amount of pleading will make them the spouse God intends for you. A godly marriage is built on *two people submitting to Christ first*—not on one person begging for scraps of affection.

We also must address the suicidal thoughts you mentioned. Your life is *precious* to God, and Satan would love nothing more than to destroy you with lies that you are "not enough." But listen to the truth: *"You are fearfully and wonderfully made"* (Psalm 139:14), and *"Jesus came that you may have life, and have it abundantly"* (John 10:10). Suicide is a permanent "solution" to a temporary pain, and it robs you of the future God has for you. If you are in immediate danger, please reach out to a trusted believer, pastor, or counselor *right now*. You are not alone, and your pain does not have to be the end of your story.

Finally, we see that you *did* end your prayer in Jesus’ name, and that is good—because *"there is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). But we urge you: *do not treat Jesus’ name as a magical tagline.* True prayer is surrender, not bargaining. It is not *"God, give me what I want,"* but *"Lord, align my wants with Your will."* If this relationship is not of God, then no amount of praying will force it to work—and that is *mercy*, not cruelty. God may be protecting you from greater heartache ahead.

So let us pray for you now with honesty and hope:

*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this beloved soul to You, broken and questioning, yet still reaching out. Lord, meet them in their doubt as You did Thomas—let them see Your scars and know You are real (John 20:27). Comfort them as only You can, reminding them that even in suffering, You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We rebuke the lies of the enemy that say they are worthless or unloved—replace those lies with the truth of their identity in Christ.

Father, regarding this relationship, we ask for clarity. If it is not Your will, give them the strength to let go. If there is sin—unbelief, emotional idolatry, or premarital bondage—expose it and break its power. Surround them with godly community who will point them to You, not to human affection as their ultimate hope. And if this person *is* a believer, then soften both hearts to seek You *first*, not each other.

We bind the spirit of suicide and declare *life* over them in Jesus’ name. Fill the empty places in their heart with Your love, not with the fleeting approval of man. Remind them that You see them, You chose them, and You are preparing a future for them—one that may look different than they imagine, but is far better than they could plan.

Lastly, Lord, draw them deeper into Your Word. Let them encounter You not just in prayer, but in Scripture, where Your promises are unshaken by circumstance. Give them faith to trust You even when the path is dark.

We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus, who conquered death so that we might live. Amen."*

Friend, we urge you: *seek God first.* Read His Word daily. Find a Bible-believing church. Confess your struggles to mature believers who can walk with you. And if this relationship is not leading you both closer to Christ, then it is not the blessing you think it is. God’s love is not measured by whether He gives you what you *want*, but by the fact that He gave you *Himself*—and that is enough. Cling to Him. He will never let you go.
 
Dear friend, we hear your heart's cry and we're here for you. We understand the pain you're going through, the confusion, the longing for restoration. We're not here to judge or dismiss your feelings, but to walk alongside you and remind you of the truth that's bigger than your circumstances.

Firstly, we want to assure you that God sees you. He sees your pain, your struggles, your heart's deepest desires. He hasn't taken His eyes off you, even for a moment. In fact, He's closer than you think. Jesus, God's own Son, came to earth, lived, died, and rose again so that you could have a relationship with God. He did this because He loves you. Not a conditional love, but a love that's there no matter what.

Now, about your relationship. We understand your longing for it to be restored, but we must ask, is this relationship honoring to God? Is it leading you both closer to Him, or is it pulling you away? God doesn't call us to chase after relationships that pull us away from Him. He calls us to seek Him first, and to build our lives, including our relationships, on that foundation.

We also want to address the suicidal thoughts you mentioned. Please, please, hear this: You are precious to God. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are not alone, and your pain does not have to be the end of your story. There is hope, and there are people who care and want to help. Please reach out to someone you trust, a pastor, a counselor, right now.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God. Read His Word, spend time with Him in prayer. He promises to be with you, to never leave you or forsake you. Trust Him, even when life doesn't make sense. He's got a plan, and it's a good one.

We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to comfort you, to give you clarity, to fill the empty places in your heart with His love. We're asking Him to draw you deeper into His Word, to give you faith to trust Him even when the path is dark. We're asking all this in Jesus' name, who conquered death so that we might live.

You're not alone. You're loved. You're seen. And you're worth fighting for.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred honor of lifting your heart before the Lord in these painful days. Your raw honesty in this request has moved us deeply, and we have continued to pray for you—not just for the restoration of this relationship, but for God’s tender presence to meet you in the depths of your despair. We know these past days have likely felt heavy, and we want you to know we are still standing with you in prayer, believing God hears every cry of your heart, even when the answers feel distant or unclear.

The doubts and questions you’ve shared are ones many of us have wrestled with in our darkest moments—why pain exists, why God allows suffering, why love feels so fragile when we’ve given it everything. We don’t have easy answers, but we cling to the truth that Jesus Himself wept over brokenness, that He collects every tear (Psalm 56:8), and that He is near to the crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Your struggle is not unseen by Him. Your longing to be cherished, to be enough, to be chosen—He understands it fully. He *is* the God who pursues the one who feels forgotten (Luke 15).

We’ve prayed specifically for the suicidal thoughts to lose their grip on you, for God to surround you with His peace that surpasses understanding, and for Him to send tangible reminders that you are deeply loved—not because of what you do or how hard you fight, but because you are His. We’ve also prayed for softness where there is hardness, for eyes to be opened (including your own) to see truth and worth, and for God to either restore this relationship in a way that brings life *or* to redirect your heart toward the healing and purpose He has beyond it. His ways are higher, and though the waiting is agonizing, we trust He is working even now.

If you’ve seen even the smallest shift—whether in your own heart, in this relationship, or in your ability to hold onto hope—we’d love to praise God with you. And if the weight still feels unbearable, we invite you to share it again. You are not a burden; you are a beloved child of God, and we are here to keep interceding. Let us know how we can pray more specifically in this season.

We’re also praying for you to encounter God’s love in unexpected ways this week, for Him to speak truth over the lies that say you’re unworthy or unseen. May He meet you in the quiet moments, remind you that your value is not tied to this relationship, and fill you with a hope that transcends circumstances. You are not fighting alone.

In Jesus’ name, who holds your heart and your future.
 

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