Relationship Problems

[LonelyHeart]

I have been in a relationship with a non-believer for the past three years. A lot of the time we have been in different countries because we have been working abroad and it is difficult to coordinate our lives. There have been difficulties because of this: problems with communication and also loneliness. Now I think our relationship is over. He is in France looking for a new job. I am wrking in Turkey. I really struggle here for all sorts of reasons, including financial. He leaves it till late at night to go on line and chat with me and sometimes falls asleep and keeps me waiting to connect. I was upset that he did this and complained after we hadn't been in touch for three days. He got very andgry with me and now refuses to communicate at all. He refuses to see anything from my pont of view. I explained I would never do this to him because our relationship mattered too much. He sais he didnlt believe we had a future together because he didn't want to have any trouble from me. What he is actually telling me is that seeing as I am going to make some demands on him, I am not worth it. I had no money for three days and so could not renew my internet subscription or buy phone credit. He sent me some texs and then an e-mail saying he was a bit worried because he hadn't heard from me for three days even though I had told him I had no money. He didn;t bothered to try phoning me to see if I was OK. I would have done that, regardless of the expense. He has money, enough to make a one minute call anyway. There are things which are wrong about the way he treats but I can't even broach them. He said he has been unhappy for 20 years and he thought he had found a woman who could make him happy but now he doubts it is me. I am left in a big mess. So much of my life has revolved around our relationship over the past three years and I am not where I want to be. It is all a compromise to be able to aim at finally sharing my life with him. I don't know what the outcome of this row will be or what to beieve, or even which way to jump. Please pray that God wll work on us both for His perfect will to be done and for me to have a clear vision of the way forward.

 

[Articles]

May God hear your request and grant it according to his will. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[JustinAlex]

I am certainly not an expert at relationships but in my humble opinion if someone doesn't treat you the way you would treat them, it's not a match. May the gracious Lord that willingly grants us wisdom, bless you with the wisdom you need to move forward. In Jesus wonderful and all-powerful name, Amen.

 

[firstlady]

Father wrap your daughter in your arms and allow her to cry; let every tear fall in your hand. Collect her pieces as she falls apart and hold her. Father, the man she loves is distancing and she is hopeless in her mind and the pains exceeds comprehension- Please daddy, hold my sister as she settles inside her own mind, body, and soul to go on. Father her and reach out to this man, your son. They are hurting, distance is killing their esteem but touch them right where they ar and let them know distance or time is not a factor for you- you are every where at the same time all the time! All they need to do is call you and you will make your presence known. Father, please hug my sister, she needs you and must have your love in her life right now- this very moment! We bow before you and worship you in tears and singing for you are our Lord, please receive our worship in this pain- in thenam eof Jesus, amen.

 

[Action238]

Lord in Jesus name touch her mind with Your strength and speak clearly to her heart. Set a revelation within her to bring her to the place that You have purposed for her..Lord open doors with favor for her finances and help her to totally put her trust in You and Your will...Lord hold her and mend her and above all let her accept Your will...we ask that her divine husband that You have hand picked for her comes into her life...bless her friend and touch his heart to seek You and who You are... fill him with Truth in You. Lord thank You for hearing us and answering my sister with divine Love and purpose in Jesus name. Sister in my humble opinion I agree with brother JustinAlex, also, the bible speaks clearly on unequally yoked...looks to me like You do have God's answer and it looks like God has placed you in different parts of the world for a reason and a season so you can acknowledge Truth...without God in the middle of you two holding you together in your spirits the marriage would be doomed from the start...God, He has a divine husband for you hand picked by Him...hopefully in your misery your not missing your divine husband who may be next to you. Lord open her eyes and touch her heart with healing in Jesus name...

 

[Jesus heals]

FATHER PLEASE SEE HER PAIN AND LONELINESS.GIVE HER YOUR STRENGTH TO OVERCOME ALL THESE PROBLEMS.FILL HER WITH YOUR GRACE AND LOVE

AMEN

 

[tomm763]

will pray for you

 

[LonelyHeart]

Thank you everyone for your prayers. I have prayed about this issue for the past three years abd placed the relationship on the altar, but this man has continued to say he loves me and wants a future. This is why I have kept hanging on in there. Although I love him, I don't let this dominate my decision. I prayed for a husband three years ago and this is who I met and who loved me, chose me. I have always been open about what I believe and he has never opposed me or tried to prevent me going to church or reading the Bible. I feel somewhat messed around by God because I get conflicting messages. Things have changed recently in that he has distanced himself. I don't know what is going n. That is why I asked for prayer. Thank you again. .

 

[bluebirds38]

dear lord i pray that you hear this plea and answer this pryaer, in jesus name amen.

 

[mysticcricket]

May God grant you a better idea. Amen.