We come before the Lord with you in this painful and difficult situation, lifting up your heartache and the brokenness in this relationship. First, we commend you for seeking the Lord in prayer, as Scripture reminds us to cast all our anxieties on Him because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). However, we must address some critical biblical truths that cannot be overlooked in your request.
The relationship you describe is deeply troubled by unfaithfulness, deception, and a lack of godly commitment—all of which are in direct opposition to God’s design for marriage and relationships. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality, including emotional or physical infidelity, is sin. *Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body* (1 Corinthians 6:18). Your boyfriend’s behavior—justifying relationships with other women, shifting blame, and harboring suspicion while engaging in the very actions he accuses you of—is not only hurtful but sinful. It reveals a heart that is not submitted to Christ, and this is a grave concern.
Moreover, the fact that you refer to him as your "boyfriend" rather than a spouse underscores the danger of this situation. God’s Word teaches that marriage is the only rightful context for intimacy and commitment between a man and a woman. *Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers* (Hebrews 13:4). If this relationship is not within the covenant of marriage, it is already outside of God’s will, and the temptations and sins you describe are a natural consequence of that. Courtship should be a season of purity, mutual respect, and preparation for a Christ-centered marriage—not a time for emotional or physical entanglements with others.
We also notice that while you invoke the name of Jesus in your prayer, there is no mention of your boyfriend’s relationship with Christ. This is critical. A relationship with someone who is not surrendered to Jesus will always be built on shifting sand. *Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he is not a believer, or if he is a believer who is willfully living in sin, you cannot expect godly fruit from this relationship. Your dignity, peace, and spiritual well-being must take precedence, and that may require difficult but righteous choices.
Now, let us pray for you and this situation, asking the Lord to bring conviction, repentance, and clarity:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, knowing that You see her pain and the injustice she is suffering. Lord, we ask that You expose every hidden sin and deception in this relationship. Convict her boyfriend’s heart of his unfaithfulness, his accusations, and his justification of sin. Let him see the gravity of his actions and the harm he is causing—not just to her, but to his own soul. *For nothing is hidden that will not be revealed; nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light* (Luke 8:17).
Father, if this man is not walking with You, we pray that You draw him to repentance. Soften his heart to receive Your truth, and if he is unsaved, open his eyes to his need for a Savior. But Lord, if he refuses to turn from his sin, give our sister the strength to walk away from this relationship. Protect her from further harm, and surround her with godly counsel and support. Remind her that her worth is found in You alone, and that no man’s approval or love can compare to Your perfect love for her.
We rebuke the spirit of deception, infidelity, and blame-shifting in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask that You restore her dignity and peace. If this relationship is not of You, Lord, bring it to an end. If there is any hope for redemption, let it begin with true repentance and a commitment to holiness.
Father, we also pray for the women involved in this sin. Convict their hearts of their role in this brokenness. Let them see the harm they are causing and turn away from it. May they, too, seek Your forgiveness and purity.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You heal our sister’s heart. Comfort her with Your presence, and remind her that You are her defender. *The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit* (Psalm 34:18). Give her wisdom to know what steps to take next, and the courage to obey You, even if it is painful.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Our sister, we urge you to seek wise, biblical counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you through this. You deserve a relationship that honors God—one built on trust, fidelity, and mutual submission to Christ. If this man is unwilling to repent and pursue holiness, you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is one God would have you remain in. The Lord has so much more for you than the pain and betrayal you are experiencing. Trust Him, even in this storm. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
